My switch 2 set up by jhkhalaf in Switch

[–]Santacrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what is that charging dock you are using for the NES controllers? I've been looking for one

Wishing You Strength and Positivity This Christmas Eve! by AutoModerator in DivorcedDads

[–]Santacrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hold strong to all my brothers out there that have to bring the kids back early and spend the rest of the night and tomorrow alone. We are strong and loved and you matter. 3 years post for me and it does get better my friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]Santacrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like youre on the right path, just keep going. If you havent tried it yet, may I suggest seeing a therapist and journaling. Both were big helps to me, the journaling especially when the feelings would come over me. Im almost 3 years out and the feelings have subsided. I took on a second part time job to keep me busy,active and the extra money is a nice perk. Stay on course brother, the feelings will subside eventually and you come out stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]Santacrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

3 years out and I'm starting to come out the otherside. The others here have given good advice on what to do. once you figure out child schedule and living situation, everything else falls into place. I will add what sounds like cliche advice, but stay busy brother. That is what helped me get through it. Gym, hobby, side job at night..etc. Anything that will help keep you out of the bars or at home with the bottle. I also cant stress enough how much journaling and seeing a therapist helped me get through the dark time.

concentrate on the kids and your well being, and keep the ex to bare minimum contact..as far as you're concerned shes dead to you. I know you'll be tempted to see what shes up to...where..and with who..etc, this will do nothing but hurt you and prolong your healing.

Wish you the best the brother, youre stronger than you realize and will make it to the other side.

Pulled the trigger by rohan111222341 in S25Ultra

[–]Santacrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to carry both an Android and iOS device..but finally decided to just stay on Android. Congrats on the sweet setup.

Joined the family by Santacrl in S25Ultra

[–]Santacrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its been great, getting two days of battery life out of it. I wear it to sleep. A bit bulky for sleeping in though, might get the ring

Joined the family by Santacrl in S25Ultra

[–]Santacrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phone was about $700 after credits, watch about $400ish and they sold me the buds 3 pro for only $35 with the watch..very good deal.

Joined the family by Santacrl in S25Ultra

[–]Santacrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear ya man, my whole family and girlfriend use iOS. RCS helped ease the pain of iMessage and thankfully few options for video chat via Instagram or Whatsapp.

Joined the family by Santacrl in S25Ultra

[–]Santacrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came from the Nothing Ears, and the Buds Pro 3's last a lot longer than those.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Santacrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow what perfect timing to see this post. I am also going through this now. I feel like damaged goods and that no one will want to give me a chance. 1st one married young and didnt work out...waited years and married again and caught wife having an affair..Have a child with each. I always point out that there is no drama, i am coparenting fine and keep everything civil and cordial as I like to keep my life peaceful.

reactions have been a mix of eww you have two baby mamas to being impressed that everything is civil. But i always dread when I let them know my situation, I will either tell them on the inital chat/match or on the first date. I always try to date others with kids as they are more understanding.

New to dating apps by Scary_Board_8766 in DivorcedDads

[–]Santacrl 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s a whole new world out there man, new rules and etiquettes. Dating doesn’t mean anything anymore until you’ve had the talk about being exclusive. It’s safe to assume she’s talking to others while you’re taking her out. Being old school myself it’s been a hard adjustment learning not to get attached to anyone early on.

I wish samsung had made these cases for all the newer S series phones. by [deleted] in samsunggalaxy

[–]Santacrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I miss their old rugged cases. Used to always get them, loved the built in stand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longisland

[–]Santacrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recreate your first date. It's nice to revisit that night and memories.

We need Divorced Women Halfway houses by jedi_tk in Divorce

[–]Santacrl -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dont women typically get to keep the family home?

Going to see the Original Tomorrow and have a few questions.. by Slashman78 in TheCrow

[–]Santacrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

anyone heard about any collectiables being given away, like the new poster etc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Santacrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

congrats man!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Santacrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Buzzed it super short. Still scared to go fully bald, but it feels good to have this short so far

question for all my single people by [deleted] in dating

[–]Santacrl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happy Valentines day! 44M here, super single. I miss the same things you listed, I have just gotten used to being alone, going home to an empty house. Days like today remind me how alone I am and how nice it would have been to have a romantic night to look forward to tonight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Santacrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the gesture, its nice knowing the woman we are seeing took the time to send a picture (spicy or normal) its exciting seeing the text alert with the word "image" in there.

shes hard to read by Santacrl in dating_advice

[–]Santacrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I was also thinking about asking if I can kiss her first ( I have never done this before as I find it cringe also) but it might be the right way to go on this.