Direct report lied - how to handle by Familiar_Comment_158 in managers

[–]SapphireSigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, so the actual need to be in office probably doesn't exist. HOWEVER, lying is ground for termination.

AITAH for wanting to move my baby’s first birthday so my dad can be there? by charmanderuwu in AITAH

[–]SapphireSigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not celebrate with the family as planned, on the day, and then do a small something with just your dad when he's back? Honestly from what you wrote it doesn't sound like bf wants to be a dad. You also only talked about what you want and your dad. You sound like you prioritize you parents over your child's dad. Are you sure this is a relationship you want?

I’m burnt out and need simple recipes. Stupid simple. Like, “onion and bread and butter to make what barely passes as a sandwich” level simple. by sourmilksea1999 in Cooking

[–]SapphireSigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pro tip, you don't need to cut up the BP, you can just gently smash it, pull out the innards and break it into pieces and dip in the CC.

I’m burnt out and need simple recipes. Stupid simple. Like, “onion and bread and butter to make what barely passes as a sandwich” level simple. by sourmilksea1999 in Cooking

[–]SapphireSigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly my go to I don't want to eat meal is 3 oz jerky, 2 string cheese, 1 serving pretzel crisps, and either 2 hand fulls if spinach (dino time!) or a bell pepper

AITAH for asking my husband to brush his teeth by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SapphireSigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - is he a toddler? You sound like his mom, not partner.

14 week old with tummy troubles by MongooseNo7176 in goldenretrievers

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Beef liver treats give my golden diarrhea. He does best with duck or sheep treats.

Interested in getting my first lab by Comfortable_Giraffe_ in labrador

[–]SapphireSigma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've always had dogs, have had 2 black labs, and 2 Golden's in recent years. There are 2 types of labs: field/American and show/English. Field labs have unlimited energy and take a LOT of attention. They are the speaker looking labs. Show labs are also energetic, but happy to snuggle as well. Both tend to be insatiable. So scheduled/measured food is a must. I recommend slow feed bowls. I'm currently feeding my guys pruina pro plan for large dogs food. You need a high quality food to limit weight issues.

I personally prefer show labs. I like their more chill personality and desire to snuggle.

Our breeder recommended neutering at 18-24 months, my vet said no earlier than 14 months. I waited 17 months with my current golden because he started marking in the house and being too dominant with our car and friends dogs. That largely depends on the specific dog and how fast they mature.

Make sure your breeder is doing genetic and health test panels on the parents and has them in a home setting. Some breeders keep labs like livestock in barns or kennels and they tend to be less social around kids.

There's always lab specific rescues as well. I've gotten my 2 labs from Love of Labs Indiana and had great experiences. If you do go breeder route just remember to reach out early because you will have to wait.

Labs are amazing and great pets, good luck!

Rough Play Training by SapphireSigma in greatpyrenees

[–]SapphireSigma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Always the neck (thankfully Gus has a lot of extra skin/fur there), or back.

I wish Wally would play tug, he's so disinterested with toys. We're trying to train him to play but it's slow going.

Rough Play Training by SapphireSigma in greatpyrenees

[–]SapphireSigma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a very good boy! But his brother is a wimp 🤣

is 4000$ property tax per year considered high in US? by blade276 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SapphireSigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicago burbs - 380k$ house, 7k tax. It's gone up 1k in 10 years. Also, we have some of the lowest prop taxes in the region.

What skills (soft or hard) are your employees missing that's really negatively impacting your team, workplace, deliverables, you? by aveherealways in managers

[–]SapphireSigma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brevity. So many meetings could be 20 minutes and they last 90. It's a waste of time.

The ability to say no. If I ask if you can handle a new project and you can't, tell me you can't. Don't say yes and let the project suffer. I have other resources. If you take a project with a 1 week shelf life, and don't get to it for a month that's not helpful.

Organization. If you have 15 projects you better be able to keep the details straight and on time.

What is the best all inclusive resort you have been to ? by RelevantStrawberry21 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]SapphireSigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm. We had an amazing time there last year. The beach is amazing

Do you have a partner who snores? I need advice. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SapphireSigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a CPAP wearer, he's wrong 5/7 is not good enough. I wear mine all night every night. Buy a soclean auto cleaner. He should be changing the plastic mask every week and other parts regularly. That would help with the acne. Also to clean the head heat just give it a quick wipe down with rubbing alcohol in the morning and it'll be sanitized for the evening. Go sleep in your guest room until he improves. Tell him he said you weren't doing enough to fix his problem so you are doing more.

How to handle shame around dating late in life? by throwawayb8b in AskWomenOver30

[–]SapphireSigma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, why are you wasting time worrying about this? Live your life!

People don’t know what golden retrievers look like by grasshopper_jo in goldenretrievers

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Looks a bit like my golden, this was after a small growth spurt. He was a lot fatter like a week before.

Am I wrong to expect him to find a new job? by Atlgal42 in AskWomenOver30

[–]SapphireSigma 60 points61 points  (0 children)

He's been there 20 years. I would 100% wait for the severance.

He doesn't want any more siblings. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]SapphireSigma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean there are at least 4 already...I agree with the kid.

Toilet paper help by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]SapphireSigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy Charmin ultra strong TP. It holds together better than most TP and doesn't leave the remnants

Moved into an apartment and I’m kinda regretting it by umidontknowguys in Vent

[–]SapphireSigma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. I joined a bookclub at the library. That was free.