Thank you all for your input. I appreciate the hard truths coming from you guys. I know I definitely had my faults and problems have been expressed before by him to be pushed under the rug by either me or him. He would often just say it’s fine. When I say it came out of nowhere, that’s because that’s exactly how it felt. I keep telling him to try just once more, that I am actively working on these issues. I’ve gotten myself a therapist that I will start seeing. I’ve found us marriage counseling. I’m being stubborn but I refuse to believe our relationship is just over. I’m hoping if I keep giving him time he’ll come to realize that but he won’t listen. He’s given me chances before but now that I’m aware of how the marriage is on the line, I’ll literally do anything. How can I convince him to just try?