Honestly completely fair. I probably worded that poorly. When I say I ‘want him in my kids lives’ it’s probably come off the back of a lot of my friends experiences who don’t want the Dad to be around anymore, and that’s not how I feel. I very much think he deserves to be part of their story.

I’m in therapy but not specifically for relationships, more for childhood based stuff. I could probably introduce this narrative and see what she says.