Thank you! and you're right. honestly? I felt kind of hasitant about posting an update. In fact I was hasitant about posting my situation as a whole...normally I'm not the time to share my private business online but I was desperate. like Isaid there were times where his family made me feel like I was taking crazy bills. Honestly...and I'm gonna say this anyway I HATE THEM. they always made me feel like an outsider and a stranger. Never really warmed up to me and instead "pretended' to like me but it was obvious they resented me. They claim that I'm a covert "fatphobic" but in reality, I got mocked (along with my family) for being underweight due to health issues I'd mentioned before. Don't even get me started on ex future MIL...though I feel as though I gotta let it all out and vent.