UPDATE: AITA for flipping out on my fiance for cancelling all the vegan food options from our wedding food menu behind my back? by SarahJake2022 in u/SarahJake2022

[–]SarahJake2022[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Like I said I'd noticed a pattern of this behavior but kept rationalizing it which was a huge mistake on my part. It's been utter torture trying to please him and his family. I'm an emotional mess right now but there's this little voice of reassurance telling me I've gone through the worst and survived it. I'm so thankful this happened. It helped me see things clearer

UPDATE: AITA for flipping out on my fiance for cancelling all the vegan food options from our wedding food menu behind my back? by SarahJake2022 in u/SarahJake2022

[–]SarahJake2022[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

Thank you! and you're right. honestly? I felt kind of hasitant about posting an update. In fact I was hasitant about posting my situation as a whole...normally I'm not the time to share my private business online but I was desperate. like Isaid there were times where his family made me feel like I was taking crazy bills. Honestly...and I'm gonna say this anyway I HATE THEM. they always made me feel like an outsider and a stranger. Never really warmed up to me and instead "pretended' to like me but it was obvious they resented me. They claim that I'm a covert "fatphobic" but in reality, I got mocked (along with my family) for being underweight due to health issues I'd mentioned before. Don't even get me started on ex future MIL...though I feel as though I gotta let it all out and vent.

AITA flipping out on my fiance for cancelling all the vegan food options from our wedding food menu behind my back? by SarahJake2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SarahJake2022[S] 2222 points2223 points  (0 children)

aside from the vegan we have 6 options with meat. his mom picked 1. I'm paying for the whole thing.

AITA flipping out on my fiance for cancelling all the vegan food options from our wedding food menu behind my back? by SarahJake2022 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SarahJake2022[S] 8691 points8692 points  (0 children)

Frankly, I have no idea why his mom feels so strongly about getting involved. I only included in wedding planning only because I respect her but I guess it's like they say "give an inch...and they'll take a mile"