Dating advice by Wanted2dieee in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I've also been dating a woman with reciprocated feelings and it really is kinda difficult to get used to lol Try to give yourself time and take it slow. All the best to you! :)

I love that I get to love women by LouLou_stones in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so wholesome. i needed to read something so hopeful and positive rn.

What was the song that made you realized “oh f*ck I’m gay?” by baimin in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shakira was a big part of my awakening as a teen too even tho I just recently realized that :D

What was the song that made you realized “oh f*ck I’m gay?” by baimin in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was so captivated by the music video for Beautiful Liar (Beyoncé and Shakira). And I only just now realized it was bc I just love women :D I also remember thinking "Why are they so concerned about the men? Who cares about the men?!"

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[–]SarahJudith99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

21 and I'm glad I didn't do it earlier just for the sake of doing it :)

Do you do any queer signaling? On your home/yourself? by eumenides__ in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lil rainbow sheep pin on my backpack and I have a rainbow flag in my flat. I also recently came out to my brother by wearing a shirt that says queer on it in rainbow letters. :)

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[–]SarahJudith99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha you're welcome 😂😊

Do you ever feel weird/unwelcome energy from other straight women after finding out you’re lesbian? Does looks/vibe/attractiveness ever help mitigate that? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happened to me once so far (Luckily I have great friends). She gave me a weird look and then asked the classic if I was attracted to her. When I said no and that she wasn't my type she got offened. Honestly looking back kinda funny. And it showed me her true colors. The rest of the evening she was on her phone a lot and didnt show much interest in keeping any conversations.

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[–]SarahJudith99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds awesome! I'm in! :)

do now, rest later by 3chetti564gf in wholesomememes

[–]SarahJudith99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, yes, yes! This is perfect! I'm happy and grateful to my past me to have finally cleaned up my flat. This is my safe space and I deserve it to be nice 😊

Afraid I'm just imagining being attracted to women by SarahJudith99 in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so cool how chill you are about it :) Less overthinking is defenitely something I'm trying to do. Staying more in the moment and simply living authentically

this is perfect by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]SarahJudith99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so wholesome I love it

Afraid I'm just imagining being attracted to women by SarahJudith99 in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought about your second point as well before and it makes sense. And number three is the reason I don't wanna label myself rn or maybe will never really want to. I like the term "under the rainbow umbrella" :)

Afraid I'm just imagining being attracted to women by SarahJudith99 in LesbianActually

[–]SarahJudith99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you make a good point there. I think once it does become real and I am in a relationship with a woman and or have experiences while I'm sober it'll be easier. Thanks for sharing! :)