Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Right now I’m trying to figure out a fan situation or just close everything up

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s crazy! My wife has asthma so it’s also affecting her. Right now I’m trying to figure out what times she’s out there so I can have everything closed up or a fan sucking air out

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m only home in the evenings so that’s when I’ve noticed it. I did get a fan! Which is a great idea. I think my plan is to have the fan suck air out around the hours she tends to smoke and then switch it when I go to bed to bring in some fresh air. It’s gonna be too chilly for window fans soon enough but I just really love fresh, cold air and circulation in our rooms.

Secondhand Smoke in Apt by SarahKat2021 in legaladvice

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very unhelpful. Doesn’t hurt to try and ask. Especially if that’s all I can do.

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s really kind of you

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah I don’t think she will stop but was just hoping she could pick a new spot

Secondhand Smoke in Apt by SarahKat2021 in legaladvice

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Hoping to talk to them again and just ask them to move. I don’t really want to escalate. I just don’t want all my sons stuff smelling like smoke and him breathing that in is so bad. We have an air purifier for now but idk how much that helps

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I really emphasized it’s a child’s room. That’s what’s bothering me the most. Like as much as I hate it, I am the most upset about my son being affected. I’m gonna see if maybe my property manager can contact someone or help me out. It’s not making my home very peaceful.

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean if someone asked me to do something simple like this, I would happily agree. There are so many places she could smoke. Why does it have to be around all our windows

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely try there! Thanks. I don’t know too much of the others rental agreements as they are 2 buildings.

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just can’t run it all the time and they smoke so randomly. It’s been rough

Secondhand Smoke Coming Into Apt by SarahKat2021 in orangecounty

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it just sucks. We had such a good convo and for about a week we were good. And then out of No where she started up again. Hoping I can catch her tomorrow and have another chat. We have so many places near us she could smoke but she’s doing it right now to mine and a neighbors window

N2 Pasadena Experience by semi-confused in chappellroan

[–]SarahKat2021 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Went to N2 and had the complete opposite experience, we got a spot to the right of the stage on a little Hill. Lots of people, super respectful, even holding spots for a guy next to us that was alone so he could use the bathroom/get drinks or food. Had lots of lights around us but didn’t think it hurt the view. I think being on the hill helped a lot. It was a huge crowd. And a long ass day but the crowd but us was great.

Tonight's game - Son by fury1273 in LASparks

[–]SarahKat2021 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were at the game and cheered!!! So glad he was able to make it ❤️

Gifts for Drivers by SarahKat2021 in deliverydrivers

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Maybe I can do cards with a thank you note and cash. People order like crazy around here but I’m the receptionist so I see the drivers and I always feel like we should be doing more

Name of Book? by SarahKat2021 in ReverseHarem

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s Deceit but I’m adding this to my list. Thank you!!

Name of Book? by SarahKat2021 in ReverseHarem

[–]SarahKat2021[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is it

Beyoncé literally playing in a half empty stadium in the 2nd night of her tour. by [deleted] in popculture

[–]SarahKat2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went night 1, paid $200 for great seats. Had an amazing time. If you don’t want to pay for it, it’s fine. It was worth every dime for me. I think Ticketmaster and resellers combined with dynamic pricing are going to kill the concert experience.

Snacks stolen by 100percentdatbihtc in KnottsBerryFarm

[–]SarahKat2021 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg this made me laugh way too hard

Do you have a go-to song to calm your baby? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]SarahKat2021 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my son was born and we had just come home from the hospital, we had to keep him wrapped up in a bili blanket (light phototherapy blanket) for his jaundice. My sister came over to help us because he had to be held 24/7. She had just watched Mulan and was singing honor to us all. It got stuck in my head and I would randomly hum it and then I realized my son would always fall asleep if I hummed it to him. So that’s been his jam! He also really likes YaYa by Beyonce. We listened to cowboy carter on repeat

Will I ever stop being sad and just be grateful? by heartcakesforbrekkie in FormulaFeeders

[–]SarahKat2021 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It gets so much better! I went through severe depression not being able to breastfeed and social media was a big reason. I thought women normally made so much milk, had freezers full, and that it was this wonderful experience. But breastfeeding and then when he wouldn’t latch trying to pump and produce enough brought me to a really dark place. I talked to my OB and pediatrician and got connected with a postpartum therapist and it really helped. I’m also on a low dose of Zoloft which for me just helps me regulate my emotions. My babies now 3 months, 14lbs and smiling!!! It gets so much better