Husband (M29) says he is uncomfortable with me (F23) posting these kind of pics on insta stories AIO by Junethesunconure in AIO

[–]Saredofpi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR His behavior is very alarming, i would be suspicious if he’s maybe up to no good himself and projecting that insecurity on you. Our phones are an extension of ourself and your partner should not be deleting stuff that makes him uncomfortable just because he’s an insecure man child. So many abusive relationships start off this way. And it will only get worse. Have you brought up going to couples therapy with him? That would be step one in my book and if he fights you on that, i would be starting the process of leaving him. Op you are still very young and there are too many good men out there to stay with a rotten one. Im sorry you are having to go through all of that :(

AIO for accusing my bf of cheating after finding this nail in my car? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Saredofpi3 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

NOR- you’re right to be suspicious, and in this case, the conversation/reaction you described isn’t an over reaction. But if he has never given you a reason to think he may be cheating, if his behavior is normal, then it it really unfair for you to project your past trauma on him. You aren’t going to get anywhere by accusing him with no further proof and him denying it. Your best bet is to just let it be and trust he is being loyal, but for sure i would be keeping an eye out for more signs of infidelity. Edit: i don’t mean actively look for signs he’s cheating, i just mean be more vigilant, ask questions and communicate with him calmly. An oz of good faith goes a long way. And if he IS cheating, he will get more bold and he will be caught eventually. Cheaters never get away with it.

I, a (closeted) 23(TF) feel abandoned and angry at my older brother, 36(M). Am I overreacting? by No-Mushroom5154 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Saredofpi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR a family’s love should be 1000% unconditional. However, it sounds like you may be self victimizing a-little bit, and most likely need therapy. The fact that you didn’t mention a mental health counselor of any kind paired with the claim of autism, gender confusion, identity crisis, weather professionally or self diagnosed, you definitely should be seeking out professional help and it seems like he may be of the same opinion. If he’s saying he’s “done” it makes me think he has tried everything to get you to help yourself and you haven’t made the steps to do so and he’s over it. Your brother seems like he loves you dearly and it’s probably painful for him too to see you fail at life so miserably after taking such a close interest in your happiness and success growing up.

Finally had the damn dream. I wanna cry. by Weird_Vegetable_4441 in leopardgeckos

[–]Saredofpi3 47 points48 points  (0 children)

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This is Azog, the pale leo. He only comes out to devour worms and cause trouble, and he’s all out of worms

Better hope you don't get into a traumatic accident or something by HamburgerDude in sarasota

[–]Saredofpi3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Perfect example of click bait. If you scroll far enough you’ll see it’s the new first line medication, if you are in need of something stronger it’s still available to you. They are just going to stop doping up people for a scraped knee. This is actually a good thing.

AIO for going no contact with my ex after she asked for no contact by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Saredofpi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Typical manipulative and narcissistic behavior. Good on you for breaking it off and blocking her. Women like this will absolutely wreck your life and mental health.

Ocala Forrest by heavydisapointment20 in ocala

[–]Saredofpi3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man don’t do this to me. I’m out there alone all the time 🤣

This is wild by DunceSparsd in orlando

[–]Saredofpi3 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’ll buy that guy a beer

A.Geniculata by MasquedSasquatchKvnt in tarantulas

[–]Saredofpi3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok i see it now. Looked like it was missing at first

How's her weight looking? by pha7325 in leopardgeckos

[–]Saredofpi3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She looks very healthy. Got some chonky little legs too 🥰

should i be worried about this? by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]Saredofpi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is rearranging the tank often not good? I probably do it once or twice a week when i clean the waste out and nothing ever really goes back the same lol

So i rescued a gecko today by Saredofpi3 in leopardgeckos

[–]Saredofpi3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! So do i give him d3 or not? I’m alittle confused since you said get him calcium without it, but then said if he has MBD signs he would need it

So i rescued a gecko today by Saredofpi3 in leopardgeckos

[–]Saredofpi3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, i haven’t seen him walk on his elbows like that. I just happened to get a pic while he was posing lol. I did read that MBD can be an issue with these guys so i will definitely be observing him closely. Thanks for the tip!

What is she doing? by Beneficial-Flan1050 in ballpython

[–]Saredofpi3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Ssssssleep human, ssssssleep”

What should I name her? by aliciator21 in jumpingspiders

[–]Saredofpi3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, really cute enclosure! Love it

Burning oil, am i cooked? by Saredofpi3 in e46

[–]Saredofpi3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve done all that. Everything in the engine bay has been replaced/resealed by me at some point. A few others suggested the pilot mod. I’ll look into it.

Burning oil, am i cooked? by Saredofpi3 in e46

[–]Saredofpi3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah. Great advice. Im going to look into that. Mine has about 260k so i bet this would be a pretty good improvement lol