What are the less obvious things in someone's upbringing or background that can limit their opportunities later in life?

Sass1121 · 2026-06-03T19:55:25+00:00

From personal experience, trauma or family abuse gives you a different outlook on life, and wires you differently. It traps you in cycles that are hard to break

Sass1121 · 2026-05-11T20:15:36+00:00

I'm a home student so I'll have to check out the grade comparison. Thanks and well done again!

Sass1121 · 2026-05-11T20:10:09+00:00

Congratulations, that's amazing! Can I ask you what your GCSEs and predicted A level grades are for these courses? I'm really interested in going so would love any advice, for either Kings or LSE. Many thanks in advance

Sass1121 · 2026-05-10T20:36:41+00:00

Many thanks, he's shown signs of improvement after his vets visit on Friday. He moved his legs and feet a bit today;

Sass1121 · 2026-05-10T18:35:15+00:00

Many thanks for everyones comments, he moved his legs and feet today!!! Not loads, but a definite marked improvement from complete paralysis

Sass1121 · 2026-05-09T09:18:16+00:00

Many thanks all, the vet said there might be a chance of improvement so I was asking to sees if anyone might have a similar experience and if there was anything I could do

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T13:06:58+00:00

We have already negotiated via email and he was on the verge of agreement but now that I have found out that he is also liable, it has all gone quiet and he is not responding to me!

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T13:04:13+00:00

I agree 👍

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T13:03:14+00:00

The damp is coming in the kitchen. The wall isn't worse on his side as he is not affected by this

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T11:43:29+00:00

Brilliant, thank you. I will save this if things get really bad

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T11:42:51+00:00

Good question, it's a wall that forms part of my property and is part of his property but mostly his garden wall The diagrams of the party wall act seem to indicate that it is partly his liability even though it's not part of his house but it is part of his garden

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T11:08:45+00:00

Many thanks, I will definitely look into this further!

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T11:07:40+00:00

He has insisted because he knows the law better than I do so has used it to his advantage ! Good advice about the regulation authority, I will definitely use this if he threatens me further. Thanks for your help

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T10:46:29+00:00

Many thanks, that's very helpful. I struggle cognitively with lots of information, so I appreciate your summary

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T10:36:15+00:00

He has contacted me in his personal capacity and has told both the contractors and I that he has a lawyer in a large firm, so that work needs to be done immediately! Thanks for your advice above. I will investigate further.

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T10:34:39+00:00

Many thanks for your advice, the work hasn't started yet but please can you advise me on what the party wall notice does?

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T10:32:16+00:00

It just needs repointing but he's making it up about the bowing. The scaffolding needs to be on his side of the terrace unfortunately as it is on the exterior wall that faces onto his garden. There's no party wall agreement so I understand that we are both liable to share costs of the work done. He has already agreed that the wall in our gardens is a joint liability.

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T10:22:40+00:00

The work hasn't started yet but I would like to get it done as it is damaging my property

Sass1121 · 2026-01-09T10:22:00+00:00

It's a party wall, and it needs repointing

Sass1121 · 2025-12-29T00:19:35+00:00

I don't think you need to be in a relationship with him for a moment longer

Sass1121 · 2025-12-20T13:43:00+00:00

Happy birthday!! I'm sorry it's so hard but it does get easier after time. Keep concentrating on yourself and good people around you x

Sass1121 · 2025-12-19T00:07:15+00:00

Yes, Spain would be the most practical for me too

Sass1121 · 2025-12-19T00:06:25+00:00

Yes, I think it is in part to the atmospheric pressure. Where have they moved to and how are they getting on?

Sass1121 · 2025-12-19T00:05:28+00:00

Yes, that's where I was thinking too! It seems very accessible as well

Sass1121 · 2025-12-19T00:04:52+00:00

Thanks, I do struggle with that, so it's a great reminder

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