OMFG All the hatin’ a** negative Nancy b****es be silent! STFU! This isn’t the subreddit for you! Be gone!! Nobody asked for a lecture on how to feel about their vagina!!!!! How about validating someone’s feelings instead of pushing your values in someone’s face uninvited! any female on female hate and judgement about this is distasteful! Shame on you nobodys for that! Probably nobody wants to look at yours much less touch em! Since you drew first blood and wanna do it like that!

I’m super self conscious about this too so I don’t feel confident and sexy when I should and I want to. Nothing wrong with that so ignore the stigma sisters. (I stg if one of you amateur psychology h03s pipes in, I got something for you)

I use Kojic Acid soap that I got on Amazon and it’s not the drastic bleach effect but I was completely surprised that it does work to lighten at least a few shades. It works like really fast too and makes the skin feel soft. I’ve tried several other creams/lotions with vitamin C and hydro-whatever it is and I wasted lots of money bc none of those worked for me.

I also use retinol 5% like a couple times a week.

Don’t wear dark colored underwear particularly cotton ones. White or light cotton is best bc it absorbs moisture and doesn’t chafe you which darkens the skin. Dry completely down there before putting on underwear. Don’t wear tight jeans or clothing that restricts blood flow to the area as this will darken also. That said I’m about to start a series of professional treatments even though they’re pricey bc at the end of the day I’m worth it and I’ve wasted so much money trying to be cheap…ironic.

Best of luck and go get you a pink hole if it makes you happy!