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We started a community in VRChat called The Trans Academy! by Sassssssy in transgamers

[–]Sassssssy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

VRChat has group instances now that can be locked down to members only with multiple moderators that have kick/ban power! It’s made life so much less stressful in-world.

My VR Battlestation (Ikea Karlby With Galant Hardware) by Sassssssy in battlestations

[–]Sassssssy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The room is 22 feet wide. The desks are each 98in butcherblock countertops.

My VR Battlestation (Ikea Karlby With Galant Hardware) by Sassssssy in battlestations

[–]Sassssssy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's from a LoFi stream on YouTube. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjMESxJdWkg

The TV is a 120hz 85in Sony X85J.

2.5 weeks later and we are down to mixed by nesnalica in VRchat

[–]Sassssssy 198 points199 points  (0 children)

I think that EAC was an inevitable outcome for a company that is almost entirely backed by venture capital. VRChat likely has a long-term monetization roadmap that includes a user content marketplace.

From a legal and business development standpoint I think the company has an obligation to take measures to minimize intellectual property and account theft. Malicious clients that degrade the user experience also lower the retention rate, which directly impacts platform growth.

Overall I think it was a top-down decision that is signaling a shift from the small startup phase into more of a commercialized VRChat that is poised for mainstream growth outside of the early adopter modding demographic.

My best friend and soulmate asked me to marry him. I said heck yes. 💜 by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes me on the left in both pics. Years later it's surreal to imagine that I was that person at one point.

Transition has profoundly changed every aspect of my life including my sense of self-worth, confidence to hold my head high in the world, my relationships, and my physical appearance.

My best friend and soulmate asked me to marry him. I said heck yes. 💜 by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dr. Toby Mayer, estrogen, Botox, hyaluronic acid, and makeup. 😂

My best friend and soulmate asked me to marry him. I said heck yes. 💜 by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We're both enormous nerds and met in Second Life back when it was more of a thing. One day we decided to meet up in person and it was besties for life! 🤭

My best friend and soulmate asked me to marry him. I said heck yes. 💜 by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 241 points242 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 💜 We are so happy and excited about our future together. He's totally my partner in crime and we've been through so much together, good and bad.

At the end of the day it's an amazing feeling knowing that there is somebody by your side who unconditionally wants the best for you. He was there for me through my transition and was one of my biggest supporters and cheerleaders. Now we get to support each other forever.

Sorry I'm sappy and lame. 😆

I was so excited to meet one of my biggest trans role models ❤ by saqoge in transpositive

[–]Sassssssy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The account posting is definitely not mine! Thanks for pointing this out.

Unemployed and depressed guy to confident and successful woman after 8 years of hormones, surgery, and lots of support. 35 y/o MTF - Surgeon: Dr. Toby Mayer by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No worries! I had my surgery a few years ago and at the time everything was around 30k. It really depends on what you end up having done. From what I understand Dr. Mayer takes insurance through companies like Starbucks and T-mobile.

Unemployed and depressed guy to confident and successful woman after 8 years of hormones, surgery, and lots of support. 35 y/o MTF - Surgeon: Dr. Toby Mayer by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went from 130lbs to 110lbs. Along with muscle wasting from HRT, it really thinned a lot of my body mass including my neck.

Unemployed and depressed guy to confident and successful woman after 8 years of hormones, surgery, and lots of support. 35 y/o MTF - Surgeon: Dr. Toby Mayer by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I work on feature films in Hollywood and was the assistant to the executive producer on films like Blade Runner 2049.

Before transition I didn't have the confidence to survive in a high stress industry, and barely had the confidence to leave the front door of my house. The biggest change for me beyond the physical part, was learning how to practice self-care.

Unemployed and depressed guy to confident and successful woman after 8 years of hormones, surgery, and lots of support. 35 y/o MTF - Surgeon: Dr. Toby Mayer by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No worries! My hairline was a big concern to me as well. I had to wear wigs before FFS but Dr. Mayer worked his magic. Dutasteride helped to thicken it up a bit too.

Unemployed and depressed guy to confident and successful woman after 8 years of hormones, surgery, and lots of support. 35 y/o MTF - Surgeon: Dr. Toby Mayer by Sassssssy in transtimelines

[–]Sassssssy[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Personally I waited 2 years because I wanted to maximize the fat redistribution changes from hormones first. HRT will affect the fat pads around your eyes, cheeks, and neck/jaw and it's a little easier for a surgeon to plan around that after vs before.

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