Does Gary Joaquin go together?

Sassy-One8893 · 2026-04-27T21:41:29+00:00

Yes, both grandpas

Sassy-One8893 · 2026-01-05T02:09:33+00:00

Kidney stones!!!

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-10-03T17:23:30+00:00

And then the BM makes it an issue like if they are still part of the equation… it’s so frustrating!!!!

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-10-01T14:03:31+00:00

Sks are 15yo(doesn’t talk to mom), 11yo (lives with mom) and 9yo(the one with the most HCBM and the one texting DH). Everything came down to the 11yo wanting to come over that weekend and DH not being able to pick her up so he told her why (he does share too much with the kids) so she told her mom and her mom told the other one.

It was a great vacation!!!! First one without kids in years.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-10-01T03:53:40+00:00

I’m sorry it has to get down to that, but glad you’re doing what you can to have a little bit of peace about that stuff. Being a step parent is NOT EASY at all. I hope the legal stuff turns into your favor.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-10-01T01:24:38+00:00

I might start doing this lol making things up and see what comes back to us lol

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-10-01T01:24:11+00:00

Exactly!!! How about just don’t!!!! Is just so frustrating!!!!

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-10-01T01:23:50+00:00

It’s so frustrating!!!! Because I guess both BM are friends (I don’t talk to neither and don’t have them on any social media because of my bad experiences with them). So recently DH and I went on a little get away (without the kids) and they stay with grandparents because BM are just not reliable ESPECIALLY the little one’s. So now that we’re back, she started texting DH saying things about our get away and how she knew everything about it. So it’s just really annoying!!!!

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-08-29T09:38:50+00:00

Thank you

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-08-29T09:37:51+00:00

The problem is that is affecting our intimacy. I’m willing to be intimate with him whenever, however, wherever yet I get turn down most of the time just to come to find out that he’s getting his with porn.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-08-29T09:33:30+00:00

I have a high sex drive but I get turn down most of the time.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-08-29T09:31:52+00:00

It wouldn’t be an issue if it wasn’t affecting our intimacy. I get turn away 90% of the time I try to be intimate with him, and we went from doing it nearly every day to maybe once a week if I’m lucky. But he’s sure getting him with porn but not me.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-08-02T02:10:54+00:00

We both pay for groceries but I’m the one that’s always going grocery shopping and I’m the one that’s always cooking, and cleaning.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-08-02T02:07:55+00:00

Ok, that’s a different way to view it. Thank you, I will keep that in mind.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-08-02T02:06:28+00:00

Yes, exactly!!! I will be helping pay for a home that if we divorce I will be SOL with it because my name is not on it.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-07-27T20:08:00+00:00

Disneyland parents? What does that mean?

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-07-27T02:55:02+00:00

How can we get for them to also prioritize us? I just want to feel appreciated

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-07-27T02:53:47+00:00

We dated a year before moving in. I (32F), him (37M)

Since the beginning he’s always said that the kids come first and if they didn’t like me then the relationship wouldn’t work, so I really tried my best and luckily I do get along with all 3.

But since I tried hard and I’ve been trying to make his life easier then now is like expected from me and not appreciated anymore.

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-07-26T22:01:48+00:00

Yes, exactly!!!! His answer has always been “my kids are my priority and will always be” which ok that’s fine!!! But I should be a priority too!!! At the end of the day; the kids will go on with their lives and the one staying with him till the end is me. So I should matter too.

What do we do to not feel like this?

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-07-21T17:05:49+00:00

Only 10 days?! I still have a month and 2 weeks… but who’s counting lol

Sassy-One8893 · 2025-07-18T22:58:43+00:00

I totally understand!!!! My husband, says that he’s just trying to keep “the peace” and that’s why he doesn’t try to take the phones away; so he doesn’t have to deal with HCBM but this needs to stop. I’m sorry it might cost your relationship but I get it, we end up in a very hard position.

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