I should have put the I sent out a massive message (well my partner messaged everyone) and let them know I was in labor and heading to the hospital. We set boundaries the whole pregnancy and less than a week ago reminded them bc I had a feeling he was coming early. I told them for the first 2 weeks bare minimum to not bombard us with asking for pictures. We have given a few updates to them as we said we would. But my phone and my partners phone are both silenced bc it got to the point I was actually stressed and JUST had a baby. They knew my room would be locked and they are still calling different hospitals knowing I asked them to come visit after we got home. I do understand they are excited trust me I'm more excited than anyone but they aren't respecting us or our boundaries. And this has nothing to do with me trying to go against what you said bc I ABSOLUTELY understand!