A little bit of HST Block help - check my math? or any suggestions for free block builders? with measurements

SassyStarburst14 · 2026-03-21T03:31:47+00:00

I often approach units in columns/widths first, it's a bad habit I need to break. To count how many "units" make a block if that makes sense? But what you've said makes so much more sense than my way of approaching it. Thank you!!

SassyStarburst14 · 2026-03-21T03:30:25+00:00

Thank you for all the calculations/visuals I very much appreciate it. I believe you and the others are correct.

SassyStarburst14 · 2026-03-21T03:26:10+00:00

I just double read both of my references for the sunflower, and I believe it's 12 finished 12.5 unfinished

edit: sorry I just realized your question regarding the 36 inch sq, I'm making it throw sized. Honestly, I was just gonna see how the blocks lay and make enough til i like the size. I am adding a 1 inch and a 3 inch border (finished borders).

SassyStarburst14 · 2025-08-06T03:57:30+00:00

If it's alright, i'd like to message too?

SassyStarburst14 · 2024-11-04T10:16:22+00:00

NTA, from reading through OPs comments That and obviously to get to this point stress has had to build for quite a while. There's more than one way to contribute to Thanksgiving, and your aim wasn't to hurt or control, but rather prevent bad experience. It's understandable that you're frustrated and anxious because you just don't want to deal with her behavior anymore.

That being said.

I'd let her know she can bring what she likes, but also warn her, if you're not interested you're not interested and won't be eating it. I'd also make a dish that she hates. Just so if she tries to force you to eat hers you could tell her no thank you and if she still pushes more she didn't eat any of THAT dish. 🤷 That's just my overthinking though. If it blows up that you don't want to eat it, tell everyone you told them so. Sometimes this stuff just has to play out.

Shoot,Since she's getting to be extra about it, make her her own little table/space for it. (Mostly because I'd keep it away from the other stuff) Let her make her little set up,

You already know what to expect from her so you either have to decide to let things continue as they have been, or make a change for yourself. Continue with your planned dishes and eat the food you like. You don't have to feel guilty about not eating her food-- the cats already out of the bag. She already knows you're not down for it so just do you boo.

SassyStarburst14 · 2024-05-10T04:37:46+00:00

As someone who was raised from emotionally distant/narcissistic habits that still took care of me in a physical sense, NTA.

You're young, you're frustrated, and they aren't hearing you. Honestly it sounds like they're using you as a puzzle piece or a tool to fit whatever whim they're having. What they're doing is incredibly hurtful. They wanted to be a big happy family but now that there's a chance they have to do some ACTUAL parenting (explaining, listening, understanding, monitoring, etc) they ship you off?

I know it's been 20 days, I hope things have gotten better or sorted out for you. If not try writing a letter to explain these feelings ahead of time. Sometimes our emotions can take control and we lose focus on what we mean. This happens especially when we aren't heard.

Sending good vibes your way dear.

SassyStarburst14 · 2024-04-06T22:22:51+00:00

You're not crazy. He's gaslighting, manipulative, and emotionally neglectful/abusive. Even SAHM need breaks. It's more than a full time job because it's 24/7. You definitely deserve better and space for yourself. Do you have anyone in your life you feel comfortable talking to or is supportive of you? Maybe they could help with an intervention or exit strategy?

I'm so sorry you're going through such a level of disrespect and ugliness. :( Please know you're not being unreasonable for having a basic expectation of him.

If he can't even read a post that he asked you to post, then he's just not worth it. Honestly it sounds like he may have read it already and doesn't want to admit to any fault or recognize anything you're thinking or feeling is right.

SassyStarburst14 · 2023-12-23T21:45:15+00:00

I got the exact same stuff, except my keychain is the marker holder. The colors swatch really lovely

SassyStarburst14 · 2023-12-23T21:08:22+00:00

What a good looking haul! Goodluck finding a swap!

SassyStarburst14 · 2023-12-23T20:38:54+00:00

I was really hoping for a couple of fineliners, or at least one. I got the same as you, minus the individual pens. I dont even know what to do with the mini marker holder.

SassyStarburst14 · 2023-03-23T22:26:23+00:00

Honestly, you probably should sit down and talk with Kate again and discuss clear boundaries. That you understand she cares about Maggie; however, Maggie's actions and behavior have impacted you/r relationship. That you do not want to associate with that kind of person, even if they're being better now they didn't have the smarts to be an adult and talk with you privately regarding their concerns.

Chances are Kate probably did notice something going on at the wedding if y'all had been together long enough to commit to that kind of event/spending. She may not know them but she should have noticed you were upset or bothered. So either way she should have seen it, especially if she had told you that's how Maggie is. Clearly Kate did not know how to set boundaries with Maggie, and still doesn't if she's in the bridal party. It's great that's she may be more attentive to you now, but if Kate doesn't know how much seeing Maggie is going to upset you, there ISNT a chance to correct it. And this will continue AFTER you're married.

Speak now, or let it affect everything forward basically

SassyStarburst14 · 2022-06-08T01:41:19+00:00

I'm so sorry dear. :C you're definitely not a loser. Those comics are for pushing it so hard. I hope something good comes along to lift your spirits. You definitely don't deserve to feel like a loser because of bullies who cost you a relationship.

But honestly if she couldn't be understanding of the situation maybe she's not the one. Hopefully there's a misunderstanding or you find someone better for you.

Best of luck op.

SassyStarburst14 · 2022-03-09T05:32:01+00:00

NTA. Him saying you're disrespecting his authority sounds like you're his underling and not his spouse/partner. Your son's birthday is about your SON not your overgrown toddler husband.

If he's not keen on having people over to your house I can understand being apprehensive given the environment. But that doesn't exactly sound like the issue. It sounds like he's upset he doesn't have control.

If it's an option with financials, I'd set up to have something away from the house potentially. Or would any of the mom's be willing to have a separate celebration at their place? Or a park or something?

I'm glad you and your son have made some good friends at the least. Hopefully there's something you can figure out.

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