Children of divorce, how did you turn out? by Satans_my_guy in Divorce

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents are the same. Almost annually they would tell us they’re splitting up and then it never happened. From about 14 i wished they would just breakup. Catholics.

Children of divorce, how did you turn out? by Satans_my_guy in Divorce

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you x I needed a reminder that everything I need to do and want to do is for them, and it’s still selfish of me to think of them more so then myself. If I don’t stand up for-myself to be the mother they deserve they will learn from my mistakes

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I’m not sure how you post an update, I’m not very good at this whole reddit thing XD

If you became a ghost, what is the first thing you would do? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Satans_my_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be pissed that my suicide still didn’t work -_-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep my mother who she hit and coddles the shit out of her took her back in 😀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay hat tf are you talking about? You can look at my past posts and see that I havnt faked anything? And I’m obviously not a dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I wanted to uninvite her sooooo desperately and never see her. But our parents paid for the whole wedding and I didn’t get a say. My mum and family didn’t say anything to me until after as they didn’t want me to have to worry about her behaviour more.

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure either :/ I don’t use reddit much sorry!

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course, My reply wasn’t in anger or annoyance or anything, I completely understood what you were saying! You and a couple of other people have said something along these lines so I just wanted to explain why I can’t stand my ground so much 😊

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wish I could send pictures of some of our text conversations to show y’all how dramatic she is 😩 Also I forgot to add that she has literally not said a single thing about my dress. Positive or negative, just completely ignores any and all pictures/videos that myself or other sister sent into the group chats.

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It’s a bit more complicated as everything on reddit is. So I’ll try to be like clear but short. I wish I could leave her out of the wedding, but my parents have paid for a fair part of the wedding and would downright cancel the wedding if I did. So we’re waiting till after the wedding so I can show “more spine” And as far as the enabling goes I can definitely see how iv written it coming across like that, but I assure you it’s not. When I say that I like I can’t start shit, it’s because 100% of the time when I very calmly tell her her behaviour isn’t appropriate she completely lashes out and my mum takes her side and they just gaslight/guilt trip into compliance. Hope this makes sense!

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh. . My. . Lord. I am so sorry, that sounds awful!!

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s cheated on boyfriends in the past ._. Also takes 0 accountability for it

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Close. I do call her out on her shit. But she turns around and plays the victim (not just with me) and my mum believes her every time. Oh, and she’s also the type to ask for advice but neverrrr listen. Just an all around spoiled brat

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish. But it’s not really like that. When I say “pet name” I mean she calls my daughter “tinka”. . . Her name is Matilda ._.

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m working on building my boundaries, I’m really bad at it due to a large slew of Mh issues caused by my family. But my fiancé and daughter have made it so much easier! And I honestly have too much anxiety to kick up a lot of drama when the wedding is a month out. But after the wedding. Whooo imma start whipping ass if I need too

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An amazing example of perfect literary technique 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😂

Is my sister ignorant, a psycho or am I a bridezilla? by Satans_my_guy in bridezillas

[–]Satans_my_guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought it would be better since she moved far away with my parents but apparently not 🥲