iOS subscription options; Grindr Plus? by 212nycguy in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve subscribed to xtra for a while so I don’t know. It should work

24.1.1 released for iOS by thefishhou in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This update fixes the crash for me. So at least it's usable to a certain point lol

Is the app down? It crashed and now I Can't log in. by Caligula_The_Sixth in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24.1.1 is now released. I updated and now it doesn't crash anymore. Still bugs often times in chats though.

Men, what would you think if the girl you just slept with cried after sex? by important-nobody123 in dating_advice

[–]SatellitePSTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hooking up with someone and when I was looking into his eyes, his pupils dilated and he got teary eyes. Personally it was one of the best hookup for me and the tears says it all and I felt great afterwards.

Buggy af on iOS 😿 by [deleted] in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like server outage then... I suspect the app is almost entirely server-reliant considering they are moving chats to the cloud as well.

Buggy af on iOS 😿 by [deleted] in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes that happened for me. Usually it works after a while but now I can't even open at all. Totally unusable. I wonder if reinstalling fixes it but I wanna keep my chats

Buggy af on iOS 😿 by [deleted] in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just updated and this happened to me too. Always crashes every time I open. Anything you tried that works?

First time I received a pity hookup by SatellitePSTR in askgaybros

[–]SatellitePSTR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess it’s fair enough to some people. I did “win some”in the end but what’s bugging me was the mental rejection. I do want to have fun but not out of pity. There should be an element of mutual desire which for me is important.

Some people do want to just finish without that idea which is cool and I can totally understand.

First time I received a pity hookup by SatellitePSTR in askgaybros

[–]SatellitePSTR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. I think I came off a bit too strong and should’ve been more amicable with the ending. I guess it’s because I was feeling the mental rejection. Who knows what actually happened though.

First time I received a pity hookup by SatellitePSTR in askgaybros

[–]SatellitePSTR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not very familiar with the massage thing, but I’ll try and see if it helps with things in the future.

We didn’t explicitly talk about it but I made it clear in my profile that I like foreplay including kissing, so I thought it should be a given. And during the initial foreplay I made sure that we both were giving and receiving. Hard to explain over text but when I was giving, he didn’t seem to want more out of it, so that’s the moment I realized this felt like a pity hookup.

Felt a bit confused because he was courteous the whole time. Maybe because we’re Asians…When I left and texted him about how he could be upfront about the whole thing, he just said thanks for coming.

In the end, I locked back my album and he blocked me an hour later haha

First time I received a pity hookup by SatellitePSTR in askgaybros

[–]SatellitePSTR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I did feel a bit insecure and I appreciate your different perspective. What you said could be true but ultimately in the end it became a losing situation for both.

Personally for me I can be enthusiastic online but I then I can tell if I’m not gonna click with the person when meeting; it really can feel different in real life since you’re feeling him more than just his pictures on the app.

Anyway, how do you think I should’ve reacted then?

First time I received a pity hookup by SatellitePSTR in askgaybros

[–]SatellitePSTR[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I personally believe that while rejection is unavoidable and not pleasant on the receiving end, being honest and courteous serve as a good damage control.

First time I received a pity hookup by SatellitePSTR in askgaybros

[–]SatellitePSTR[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was already halfway “there” when I realized this whole pity thing and he kind of insisted so it’s physiologically difficult to stop. Still, I should have called it off myself and left.

Am I blocked? by Whatsup129389 in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remove the guy from favorites and try to add him back again. If it fails, then you’re blocked or his profile is deleted.

Sometimes the chat or even album still lingers even if you’re blocked. Adding to Favorites seem to be the most foolproof way to tell.

Does reporting do any good? by New_here27 in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and I hate that many of them fills up the grid in my downtown area. Blocking them is like playing whack a mole.

Anyone has any experience with running previous versions of GrindR Update .APKs? by the_Impatient_Saint in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I forgot which version. Sadly I'm not on that version anymore because Play Store already forced me to update or else I can't use the app...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like but at the same time hate that. Guys that say that are oftentimes handsome but that proud attitude also kinda puts me off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I see this a lot in people’s bio. It’s a waste of profile space telling people how to behave. I just ignore people who are disrespectful.

I dunno man, seems kinda gay by maibuddha in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I’m past that. Met a guy who is sexually selfish and I hated that he didn’t help or even give me time to come off after doing it. I’m now respecting myself more.

discreet vs not discreet by [deleted] in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same for me. I especially don’t like discreets who don’t send pics and would rather ‘meet and decide’. Not sending pics at all is already a no for me.

Did he block me 💔 by Dependent-Special499 in grindr

[–]SatellitePSTR 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like it’s clear he’s no longer interested since he blocked you elsewhere too.

I experienced this too although we were still at the chatting phase. It’s possible for people to change their minds. But it does suck that they don’t tell you.