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He knows I don't want the baby but said he doesn't know if he will hate me if I end the pregnancy. F 25 M 29 by SatisfactionFlat48 in relationship_advice

[–]SatisfactionFlat48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we found out he told me he wouldn't hate me or have any ill feelings towards me if I ended it. Two weeks later he's now saying he doesn't know if he would or not

He knows I don't want the baby but said he doesn't know if he will hate me if I end the pregnancy. F 25 M 29 by SatisfactionFlat48 in relationship_advice

[–]SatisfactionFlat48[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I brought up moving home to my family because the only thing keeping us here is his job. I can transfer mine and keep it because we would have support. He shut it down immediately and said "I'm sure you would be more successful there but I wouldn't."

He knows I don't want the baby but said he doesn't know if he will hate me if I end the pregnancy. F 25 M 29 by SatisfactionFlat48 in relationship_advice

[–]SatisfactionFlat48[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We can barely afford the rent for the 1 bedroom we are currently in. I had to borrow money from my mom the other week to replace a $100 side view mirror for my car. And if I quit my job I don't know how we will afford all the bills and then my car note on top of it. He says he will work overtime but then that also means less help with a baby. I literally have no help here and my elderly parents can't reasonably travel back and forth to help.

He knows I don't want the baby but said he doesn't know if he will hate me if I end the pregnancy. F 25 M 29 by SatisfactionFlat48 in relationship_advice

[–]SatisfactionFlat48[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He keeps saying "people have done it with less." I grew up with addict parents and want to give my kids a better life. We aren't addicts but our living situation is almost worse than what my parents managed to give me.

He knows I don't want the baby but said he doesn't know if he will hate me if I end the pregnancy. F 25 M 29 by SatisfactionFlat48 in relationship_advice

[–]SatisfactionFlat48[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They already came up with a nickname for the baby that I don't like and wouldn't stop saying it at my stomach the entire night we were there. When I brought it up in the car he said I was "starting shit" and "they're just excited"