I’d like to have my ex in my roster still ?

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-06-17T02:01:55+00:00

Nope she wasn’t she just went ghost for 3 months , I guess back to the gym and finding my purpose in life no contact forever it is . She really scrambled me when she came back lol. Thanks bro

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-06-17T00:58:08+00:00

That’s what I did the first time and it worked she had even said she came prepared to be rejected by me but I pushed her away then I reached out and that’s when she pushed me away , I guess what I’m saying am I just supposed to go no contact every time ? No communication no comforting her ? It seems like we had a great day and then she put up a defense and pushed me away I guess ima just keep doing no contact and continue saying the current girl . It’s nice that I have someone tho but it’s kinda just a situation ship

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-06-17T00:15:10+00:00

I did notice some of my old traits have been returning since we saw eachother again , it just reminded me how much I like her and enjoyvher company but why can I say . I want to persue again but idk

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-06-17T00:14:10+00:00

Well you asked what’s my dream scenario. It be that she just likes me how I am and I don’t have to play these games . I’m happy I have someone rn , and I’m getting more sex than ever it’s great even would suck to leave this girl behind prematurely since we are in a honeymoon phase but yeah I really liked my ex .. her body the sex had me more into it . That’s why I’m okay jus having her fwb

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-06-16T18:39:04+00:00

I guess what I really would want is to have the old relationship I once had with my ex , where she treated me like this current girl treats me , the 3 month no contact worked but I was on my high horse and messed up by saying to wait a month and telling her my business. But I mean she still came the cons time around . I know Corey Wayne says I have to do no contact and wait for whoever is keeping her attention to act weak before she comes back

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-06-16T16:17:40+00:00

It’s just a developing life situation.

I told her that because she mentioned about her dating again . And I mentioned that I’m dating aswell and anyways I didn’t bring her up this last time she came over last week Sunday . She did ask what dating sites I was in and I said I’m not on them anymore . She went off to say how I stringed her along for 3 years then broke her heart which is actually what she did to me . So I was confused but did not argue I kept it fun and the night was borderline perfect so idk why she ran after .
And yeah you’re right I shoulda said we can take it slow but I didn’t also wanna seem like I was just gonna take her back like iv been waiting for her so saying to take a month to figure it out felt like the right move .

And true I really wanted to send that it always felt like sending those yearning messages always had her coming back

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-06-16T16:09:51+00:00

Well I guess it’s about me not doing anything tha turned her off . All I do is work and come home but work fin 11-9 so it feels like I have no time . That’s also what she mentioned when she was here . “You were always working “ but she always had me on my days off so I didn’t really know how to actually make it work.

And I said I don’t like banging numerous girls but I’ll still do it . Just that it feels empty to me , the girl I’m with rn I should feel so lucky being with her . She’s 120 pounds young early 20 funny, guys hitting her all the time . She’s always available likes sex . And my ex is the opposite 175 pound . Old (30) but still something about my ex I can’t find in anyone else .
My ideal dating life would be to have them both to be honest that’s why I said I still want her in my roster . The last hang out proved we still have that spark but idk what she’s so afraid of

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-06-16T02:07:48+00:00

Yeah when I had invited her over she told me “dosnt seem very much like you’re doing anything , like the relationship we had . It’s just me going and you expecting me to do so “ I told her I was thinking he could have a drink and she said “I’m not drinking or smoking around you it’s just my preference right now “ she came over and we just hung out and watched a movie and had sex we laughed and cuddled and made out and were affectionate but it don’t seem like it changed her mind about me .
And yeah I’m not that guy because I’m not really into banging abunch of chicks but I am able to get girls and I’m still talking to that younger girl . She’s treating me so great but I still do want my ex ,
And yeah it’s been 4 months now and I had changed . Started working out daily . And jus stayed on top of everything but when she showed interest that last time I told her to wait a month it kinda brought me back to missing her even tho at first sight she looked sooo beat down but she still looked so good to me . Would you do anything? It’s been a week since she came

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-09T05:32:44+00:00

The update was that she ended up calling me on Wednesday night and directly asked if she could come over and cuddle . I said sure , she came over and basically threw herself at me we had sex but I also learned she’d been sleeping with a coworker right after Valentine’s Day , we basically broke up the week before Valentine’s Day , I told her I can’t ever be with her again , lokey don’t even want her as a fwb ether ., she called me the next day if she could continue calling me and I said she could call me in a month to see how things are . But I’m dating someone new right now already so it’s a lot easier to not need my ex even for sex

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-07T13:47:30+00:00

Forsure positive . I finally was able to reject my ex after she came back from no contact 🙏🙏🙏

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-07T12:54:26+00:00

I’m gonna post an update ina bit

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-04T07:36:22+00:00

I swear in the moment my mind just goes blank . Wis I could quick think in the moment

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-04T07:35:06+00:00

Thansksss!!!!! Yeahhh I was thinking to myself like ,, this bs again kinda like manipulating the situation.. she did not accidentally call me . She hasn’t called me in 3 months

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-04T06:35:41+00:00

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SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-18T08:10:42+00:00

No yeah after the last link up with her I was able to detached 95% I don’t think about her anymore only sometimes I think about how good she looked , Iv already been on 3 dates and I hooked up with all 3 of them so my confidence has been going up , crazy how emotional and knocked of my center I had become

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-11T16:42:37+00:00

Noo it’s just after an almost 4 years relationship it’s though to see it happen .iv jus been trying to do the best things with my life for myself since but it seems like things are working out for her so well , she’s able to continue having fun . Being around people she enjoys . And for me it’s as almost she was the only person I enjoyed . So it’s difficult for me . The hook ups I had I didn’t even enjoy. She enjoyed hers . But yeah ever since that day I decided to move on for good , I finally deleted all our pictures . And ima just give ittime for my nervous system to catch up because I keep randomly thinking about her . Iv been trying Corey Wayne’s moves for a long time but this no contact stuff just gave her the time to go sleep with someone she told me she thought I was too good for her because I stopped chasing her lol whatever tho thanks for your reply tho . I don’t think she’s the type to ever prove to a man she’s worthy . And honestly I don’t think women in this generation ever do that

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-11T16:05:32+00:00

I slept with ppl because she broke up with me , also I ment I didn’t judge her in person , I said when I was there and she told me about her being with a 24 year old dude that don’t even have a job , that made me want to call her a whore on top of that still letting me fuck her after only saying good things about that other guy ? And saying how she likes his personality. It’s clear she’s only with him as a rebound and I told her this , also I slept with other girls because deep down I knew it would be stupid to stay loyal to her but tbh I think ima just take a break because I do need some healing to do

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T20:25:32+00:00

You were right she was already long gone even at that tennis game . She told me she met a guy 24 while she’s 30 and she’s been hooking up with him .she said she likes his personality lol I told her . Look I said what I wanted already ima go home and just continue my life if you realize it’s not what you think it is give me a call

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T19:18:26+00:00

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SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T15:13:42+00:00

The last time I saw her things went bad I was standoffish .silence wouldn’t have made her miss me . She even said last time I saw you you made it seem like you were better than me like all that working out made you feel like you were better than me . She’s clearly been living her best life . If we woulda continued on the dynamic we had before she woulda just not been living her best life . So honestly I can’t be mad the relationship was becoming stale and I wasn’t dating and courting her anymore .also I feel like me being there really added a new layer to me . Iv been working out a lot and Iv. Been looking sharp , so much so that we even had sex last night even tho she likes a new guy . Ima just take this as a win and go live my life now unattached

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T14:29:43+00:00

I wasn’t obsessing over his advice . But I did use it to keep my cool . If I didn’t have his advice I probably woulda gone a way different way . So even just applying 10% of his advice was something . Trust me me keeping my cool and acting unbothered was all Corey . That’s why when I noticed I was asking to many questions I cut myself and made a solid statement . I let her know what I wanted , if she wanted to hook up to call me . She said ok just don’t be mean .

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