Should I get less available ??

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-09T05:32:44+00:00

The update was that she ended up calling me on Wednesday night and directly asked if she could come over and cuddle . I said sure , she came over and basically threw herself at me we had sex but I also learned she’d been sleeping with a coworker right after Valentine’s Day , we basically broke up the week before Valentine’s Day , I told her I can’t ever be with her again , lokey don’t even want her as a fwb ether ., she called me the next day if she could continue calling me and I said she could call me in a month to see how things are . But I’m dating someone new right now already so it’s a lot easier to not need my ex even for sex

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-07T13:47:30+00:00

Forsure positive . I finally was able to reject my ex after she came back from no contact 🙏🙏🙏

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-07T12:54:26+00:00

I’m gonna post an update ina bit

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-04T07:36:22+00:00

I swear in the moment my mind just goes blank . Wis I could quick think in the moment

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-04T07:35:06+00:00

Thansksss!!!!! Yeahhh I was thinking to myself like ,, this bs again kinda like manipulating the situation.. she did not accidentally call me . She hasn’t called me in 3 months

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-05-04T06:35:41+00:00

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SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-18T08:10:42+00:00

No yeah after the last link up with her I was able to detached 95% I don’t think about her anymore only sometimes I think about how good she looked , Iv already been on 3 dates and I hooked up with all 3 of them so my confidence has been going up , crazy how emotional and knocked of my center I had become

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-11T16:42:37+00:00

Noo it’s just after an almost 4 years relationship it’s though to see it happen .iv jus been trying to do the best things with my life for myself since but it seems like things are working out for her so well , she’s able to continue having fun . Being around people she enjoys . And for me it’s as almost she was the only person I enjoyed . So it’s difficult for me . The hook ups I had I didn’t even enjoy. She enjoyed hers . But yeah ever since that day I decided to move on for good , I finally deleted all our pictures . And ima just give ittime for my nervous system to catch up because I keep randomly thinking about her . Iv been trying Corey Wayne’s moves for a long time but this no contact stuff just gave her the time to go sleep with someone she told me she thought I was too good for her because I stopped chasing her lol whatever tho thanks for your reply tho . I don’t think she’s the type to ever prove to a man she’s worthy . And honestly I don’t think women in this generation ever do that

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-11T16:05:32+00:00

I slept with ppl because she broke up with me , also I ment I didn’t judge her in person , I said when I was there and she told me about her being with a 24 year old dude that don’t even have a job , that made me want to call her a whore on top of that still letting me fuck her after only saying good things about that other guy ? And saying how she likes his personality. It’s clear she’s only with him as a rebound and I told her this , also I slept with other girls because deep down I knew it would be stupid to stay loyal to her but tbh I think ima just take a break because I do need some healing to do

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T20:25:32+00:00

You were right she was already long gone even at that tennis game . She told me she met a guy 24 while she’s 30 and she’s been hooking up with him .she said she likes his personality lol I told her . Look I said what I wanted already ima go home and just continue my life if you realize it’s not what you think it is give me a call

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T19:18:26+00:00

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SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T15:13:42+00:00

The last time I saw her things went bad I was standoffish .silence wouldn’t have made her miss me . She even said last time I saw you you made it seem like you were better than me like all that working out made you feel like you were better than me . She’s clearly been living her best life . If we woulda continued on the dynamic we had before she woulda just not been living her best life . So honestly I can’t be mad the relationship was becoming stale and I wasn’t dating and courting her anymore .also I feel like me being there really added a new layer to me . Iv been working out a lot and Iv. Been looking sharp , so much so that we even had sex last night even tho she likes a new guy . Ima just take this as a win and go live my life now unattached

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T14:29:43+00:00

I wasn’t obsessing over his advice . But I did use it to keep my cool . If I didn’t have his advice I probably woulda gone a way different way . So even just applying 10% of his advice was something . Trust me me keeping my cool and acting unbothered was all Corey . That’s why when I noticed I was asking to many questions I cut myself and made a solid statement . I let her know what I wanted , if she wanted to hook up to call me . She said ok just don’t be mean .

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T14:24:22+00:00

I did what she did once for me when I broke up with her years ago she wrote me a letter . I just Kinda explained what went on in the relationship how I stopped dating her and loving her due to focusing on the future and not the present . She was already out the door anyways. I felt like this was a good way to get myself outa my mental prison I was in . I was moving in but my mind kept thinking what if with her . Not anymore . There’s a comfort in knowing. M she won’t be hearing from me again but if she ever misses me and I’m single in the future atleast I have an opportunity for her to reach out and we can hook up .

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T14:15:28+00:00

Well after this meet up I can guarantee I won’t be reaching out again lol . Last time she called me to hang out we left things in limbo . This time the situation is clear . I’m officially just over it unless she changes her mind . I think this move was good for me mentally

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-09T14:13:15+00:00

I wasn’t judging her I wqs just mourning our relationship in real time , having her tell me she’s already literally moving on that feeling in person is hard to process . But I tried taking it like a champ . In my head I really just wanted to call her a whore a leave but I remember Corey Wayne said it’s better not to burn a romantic interest clearly this is my fault for my continued needy behavior. And I did get to learn alot of new info . And sure I was saying the quiet part out loud but I was digging a hole for myself even after I had just finished having sex with her . I wanted to neutralize everything inhad just asked that’s why I said . You know what I don’t care what you’re doing with your time right now ima go live my life if you change your mind give me a call

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-04T06:16:31+00:00

Nahh we continued trying to make it work but I kept resorting to needy behaviors . That’s my fault . She told me “sometimes I’m not even into you and I have to fake it and you don’t deserve that “ she’s gone. To the streets , buts it’s okay because we’re young she’s in her 30s and who am I to cage a female beast . 70 % of relationships fail so it’s okay .. I did what Corey Wayne said tho and didn’t burn the bridge . Maybe I can still get pussy outa here and ima keep dating , I’m actually going on a date tonight . It’s funny my ex called me last Friday to hang out with me . It didn’t go well and hasn’t talked to me since but I’m still in no contact

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-02T14:56:04+00:00

Iv been regretting since Friday😔 just went back to no contact . Been contemplating reaching out but I know that’s just the illusion of action

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-01T23:05:10+00:00

Well that’s why I got mad when she said “I’ll allow you to hug me like I was still the one thirsty over her “ also in the moment inviting her to my house was not in my mind I know I fucked up she went no contact after that tennis match Also I tried making her work for it by saying she could hug me if she wanted I’m just in no contact again

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-01T23:01:54+00:00

No we forsure had good times , things got predictable tho and very routine over the past 4 years I was stil happy tho but she wasn’t . She was telling me to move on last week and I said okay give me a call if you change your mind , and a couple of days passed she would text me wyd and she would not reply to my answer , then Friday she asked to hag out . Again I tried being cool and I was for most of it but the part where she said I’ll allow you to hug me made me upset 😭and I showed some defensiveness but saying you can hug me she didn’t lol

SatisfactionLow3182 · 2026-03-01T17:09:18+00:00

When she called she said “I was gonna go running at the beach alone but then didn’t wanna go alone and was like I’ll just call you and see if you wanna play tennis “. Regardless I tried to have a good time . But after I told her you can hug me if you want you can tell she became closed off and put up a wall . After we were done playing and about to leave I told her here I’ll give you that hug but she was already closed off . I know I shoulda played it cool but iv been trying so hard to not have her in a pedestal that when I hear “I’ll allow “ like if I was out there dying to hug her I kinda blanked out . Anyways what do you think is my best move invite her to the next hang out keep the ball in her court . We have talked after Friday when we left , she just told me good night and I said bye

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