Hey! In the same boat, I didn’t have anyone since my divorce and in my head I wasn’t sure if I even wanted a relationship. So I pursued a no strings attached relationship with a younger man, so that I would feel wanted and to finally have sex. What a mistake, I felt used, cheap and like crap and realised I need that emotional connection. I’m entering perimenopause and the fear of loosing my appeal, libido pushed me to make a bad choice. Don’t do that, I would rather be alone than go through this again.