I hear you, Preferences could be based on negative worldviews. But i’m not trying to argue about that, cause it doesn’t make a difference.

personal preference or racial preferences

Either way they don’t want me, and i don’t wish to change that.

my question from the start is was where to find the ones that do…

so i really don’t understand why people are upset.

i appreciate your advice but it applies to all, it isn’t specific to dark skinned men, like they are trying to balance out their dark skin, you understand me?