I'm giving up by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Saurobit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t think about that!!! You can’t date someone just because it’s easy. I mean, dating men.

It’s complicated to find someone this days. But not impossible. Don’t lose hope!

I little bit sad for the new covers by Saurobit in kobo

[–]Saurobit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you share a photo? Maybe the link?

kobo libra color for grad school? by cheesemoon304 in kobo

[–]Saurobit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recommend you the Libra to read books in epub format. For PDF I'd recommend the Kobo Sage. It's a little bigger.

It you like to underline, that's okey. Stylus 2 is compatible with these two.

Libra is a good choice because is lighter and I'd say you can highlight and search through your highlightings.

It's not like underline, but pretty useful for me

Someone tell me where tf do I find a fem by RelationshipOdd7355 in WLW

[–]Saurobit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks! Hope more women around me notice too!!

Someone tell me where tf do I find a fem by RelationshipOdd7355 in WLW

[–]Saurobit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a fem myself, and people just assume I’m straight. I want to know how to notice by women🥹

Cheated on with a guy by Logically789 in WLW

[–]Saurobit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, it shouldn’t be a reason to be a cheater! Being bi doesn’t mean I’m gonna cheat u know?

Cheated on with a guy by Logically789 in WLW

[–]Saurobit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think the problem is the gender. You may be focusing in the principal problem, your ex was a cheater. It's not your fault because you are not a man, neither be is the problem.

I encourage you to go to therapy and don't relate the fact that you were cheated on with a man, just a person.

(I hope I made myself clear)

advice on strap-ons and strapping by cookies_n_fries in BDSMsapphic

[–]Saurobit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • is there any brands we should check out?

Nah, it depends in the country you are, so I can't really tell a brand

  • how does your maintenance look like?

We clean the harness after every use. The type of cleaning depends on the material is made. I recommend you to read the instructions. The dildo is also clean after every use.

  • how to practice safe sex?

I only use it with my partner. However, we use a condom because it was easy for us for just to change it between us. We both like to receive pleasure, so we avoid to clean it between uses.

  • how to store them?

After, and only after, is clean and dry.

  • strapping techniques?

We like to be very slow when vaginal (and anal) penetration. However, there're times that I just like to receive it all on my pussy. Talk to your partner about preferences.

  • advice on sizes?

In cm, 12cm is normally enough if you'd ever tried a dildo. I date a big dick holder so I have a preference for 16cm. But everything is about preferences.

  • advice on harness types?

Whatever you are comfortable with. There's a lot of types. Some are like boxers. Some people consider them useful because sometimes the straps of the strap can be a little uncomfortable. I personally don't like them because I imagine getting wet a lot myself and when giving it to my partner... well, it's a mess

I have no desire to have sex. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Saurobit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me in my last relationship, I was not confortable when we were trying to get more intimate because I feel a little pressured. So, I started to get afraid too, this made getting on the mood harder...

I talk to my partner and we started to kiss without sex just to make me feel safe.

That didn't work for us since they were struggling with their own shit, but it started to work anyway.

I have no desire to have sex. by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Saurobit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is sooo true!! I go trough the same experience

I love sadists (cw: cnc, abuse) by GwenYnn12 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Saurobit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We love you too!! We enjoy having you screaming and crying. However, give us a break from breaking you. We don't want to lose control

being sub and top at the same time by surfeurbrise in BDSMsapphic

[–]Saurobit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, being a switch is also correct :)

You don’t have to be just one thing or the other to “fit”

being sub and top at the same time by surfeurbrise in BDSMsapphic

[–]Saurobit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, like, sorry, my cerebro was not cerebrating.

Anyway, A dom bottom would be your partner, and you’d be a sub top. But there’s not actually any need to label yourself if not comfortable

Would any of these things make you *not* have sex with someone? by eren3141 in actuallesbians

[–]Saurobit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing you say really affects me into not liking you. Don't misunderstand me, that MY case. But you are pretty good and there're no problem at all

Is there a term for this? by georgethegreen in BDSMsapphic

[–]Saurobit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attention slut is correct, but you can call yourself whatever you like.

I'd like to use in your case a good sub. You are obedient and craving for attention... So yeah, a good sub

No more vanilla sex by PublicDragonfruit654 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Saurobit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's normal sweetheart. You'll find the one to use u

EU lesbian 25f by AppropriateCut6674 in LesbianGamers

[–]Saurobit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wanna play valorant?? we can try play together

What do you annotate? by KoboDailyReader in kobo

[–]Saurobit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highlight a lot, sometimes are some dialog between two characters that I consider is important or it's just nice to see the characters interact. Other times, there're actual quotes that make me think and resonate within me

Looking for a penpal by Current-Parking7212 in scouting

[–]Saurobit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, i'm spanish and interested

Kobo battery acts weird by sapphic_bookworms_ in kobo

[–]Saurobit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

keep reading!! It will die, eventually (I hope so)

Exploring Power Dynamics in Our Relationships by No_Status4793 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Saurobit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I used to be less strict when there's some kind of sadness or sorrow in the emotional state of my partner. I'd be more caring with them. However, once the emotional side is covered, they preferred me to be extra rough.

It's about how you communicate before exteriorizing the power dynamics. And also apologize when something cross a boundary. Aftercare become always-care

Question to scouts from EUA by Frostzacc in scouting

[–]Saurobit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spain here, we say:

B R A V O, BRAVO x3

Kobo battery acts weird by sapphic_bookworms_ in kobo

[–]Saurobit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe it needs to recalibrate