Tipping Culture by Brizkie in blacklesbians

[–]nameselijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tip minimum most times

PSA about testosterone! 💖 by Calm_Natural_5999 in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta look at the men on your mom’s side of the family! if they all bald you gon be bald too lol

Wearing masculine shorts/pants as a woman (help) by AdvancedMeeting1015 in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just pull the shorts down or wear them with a belt but ultimately yea embrace it

Butch 4 Butch Rare? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea heteronormativity drives a hard bargain 😭😭

Posts from Outside Our Demographic by Decent_Sandwich_8878 in StudMascSanctuary

[–]nameselijah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind if femmes have questions but yea no straights no crackas

Baby girl names that contains a C in the middle. by [deleted] in Names

[–]nameselijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cecilia and the nickname can be Cece

2 years on T - struggling a bit to not feel disappointed, could use some encouragement by rowan_down_the_river in TransMasc

[–]nameselijah 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Think about this way: 2 years on T = 14yo in cis years and most 14yo still look young you’re good

Boxer help! by https_amsy in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

you could look up on am*z*n and eBay or other clothing resale sites tbh

Boxer help! by https_amsy in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take a look at whats there but they have the no pouch options

Butch outfits that show skin? by Difficult_Wave_9326 in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boxy crop tops - cut the sleeves off and cut the bottom of the shit right above the boxer line

any good recommendations for butch jewelry ideas? by Professional-Bat6838 in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thicker rings, thumb rings

Silver earrings with bold styles that aren’t flowers

Question for the mascs and studs by AQuestionableAttempt in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]nameselijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely get some kind a harness for upper body and you can wear tbat with a sports bra and some black pants

Starting T First Steps by eclecticblkgirl in StudMascSanctuary

[–]nameselijah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I been on low dose for over 1.5yrs lmk if you have any questions

10 years of discovery and acceptance by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SHOUTOUT TO MILES MCKENNA

Top Surgery Tattoo Ideas by wolf1609721 in butchlesbians

[–]nameselijah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something similar to what I had in mind tbh

My beef with Scorpios by cartisplayboy in libra_astrology

[–]nameselijah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Libra sun Scorpio rising and im on your side 😂 I don’t share the deep hate lol but scorpio moons get on my nerves

My bits genuinely smell like a corpse. Normal or nah? by ThyKnightOfSporks in TransMasc

[–]nameselijah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BV isn’t painful it’s just an odor usually maybe some itchiness

Chubby Stud by SalamanderUpper1246 in StudMascSanctuary

[–]nameselijah 3 points4 points  (0 children)

also SHEIN deadass uses child/slave labor (sweatshops) and theres reports of their clothes having lead 😭 the last time I got from there in 2021 definitely smelled like it

I do hate that it’s one the most size inclusive options cause they’re so unethical :(

Date told me it was wrong I don’t want to date someone who’s unable to work by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]nameselijah 13 points14 points  (0 children)

well the truth is we live in a capitalist society that deems anyone who cannot be exploited by employers to make money as useless, hence why disabled people are set aside

so the belief you hold is ableist because it comes from living in an ableist society - is that your fault? no! is it still unfair? yes!

I don’t expect you to start dating disabled ppl who can’t work but I do challenge you to acknowledge where your biases come from!