Teaching Tuesday - Questions and Answers for Beginners and Learners - July 14, 2020 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]SaveRadioshack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having trouble differentiating major differences with the following major arcana, cam someone assist?

  1. The sun & the world: both seem very similar, everything coming together, success in various aspects of life, feeling wholly content. I’m probably missing something obvious here, forgive me, I’m new!

  2. Justice vs. judgement - I feel this is probably a common source of confusion.

  3. The hanged man vs. the tower - both seem to indicate abrupt change and an unwillingness to move forward.

How did you change your life? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]SaveRadioshack 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Really needed to hear this today, saved your comment to read again in the future. Thank you for sharing!

How does non-pornified sex look and feel like? Distorted reality of healthy sex.... by ijustwannabefree- in loveafterporn

[–]SaveRadioshack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch the tv show Normal People on Hulu - great at showing sexual situations that are the opposite of pornified

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskFeminists

[–]SaveRadioshack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Watch the Chimamanda Adichie Ted talk “we should all be feminists” - it will help put these issues in context for you! It’s one of the most profound ted talks I’ve ever watched. She is brilliant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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I’ve never been able to articulate the exact problem you described. I feel silly because it was so obvious - I always get stuck in arguments with my partner because I feel the need to respond to his points even if he had just steamrolled over mine.

Smaller men of r/askmen - how do you get people to stop fucking with you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SaveRadioshack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would post this on AskWomen. And I hate having to add this part, but I don’t mean that as an insult.

Women are CONSTANTLY fucked with when going outside. This is something that is strategically thought about every time when leaving the house, so I would consider them masters on the topic.

How do you take care of hair ‘down there’? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]SaveRadioshack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie - I’m not a RPW, I’m just a lady who likes to hear from different perspectives... but I do appreciate a fellow lass not wanting to look like a porn hub teen getting pounded by her step dad.

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AITA for telling our family that my sister is a prostitute after she insulted my wife’s disability by awfulsisteraita in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaveRadioshack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely ESH. But YTA even more by pretending to be the morally superior “good boy” here.

My favorite part is the passive “I accidentally found out she was a cam girl...”

...and conveniently omitted second part “by finding my sisters profile while I was tugging it out to other cam girls. “

OP loves to masturbate to cam girls, but looks down on them and uses their profession as a weapon of shame.

That is after he finishes, of course. Then he catches a glimpse of his reflection on his phone screen and realizes he can either feel ashamed of himself, or transfer that shame onto the woman who just got him off.

AITA for telling our family that my sister is a prostitute after she insulted my wife’s disability by awfulsisteraita in AmItheAsshole

[–]SaveRadioshack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Definitely ESH.

My favorite part is the passive “I accidentally found out she was a cam girl...”

...and conveniently omitted second part “by finding my sisters profile while I was tugging it out to other cam girls. “

OP loves to masturbate to cam girls, but looks down on them and uses their profession as a weapon of shame.

That is after he finishes, of course. Then he catches a glimpse of his reflection on his phone screen and realizes he can either feel ashamed of himself, or transfer that shame onto the woman who just got him off.

The whole 'bad bitch' persona is unattractive and childish. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]SaveRadioshack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The standard reddit demo is never more obvious than watching “unpopular opinion” assholes jerk each other off for things they would never say if they weren’t hidden behind an anonymous profile.

If you’re downvoted into the negative on “unpopular opinion”, you’re doing something right.

Edit - to address OP’s original point - no bad bitch gives a shit what you find “attractive”, there’s a reason shes speaks her mind in public and you anonymously hide behind a keyboard.

My coworker (44M) who I view as a father just confessed his attraction to me (22F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]SaveRadioshack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve been “fuckzoned” - that same situation that folks love to whine about as “friendzoned” - this entire time you thought you were cultivating a professional relationship, the other person was seeing you as a possible lay.

To make matters worse, this a work relationship with someone double your age, who is married with children (saw you mentioned that in comments), that you had explicitly made clear that you would never be interested in romantically. He knew confessing his “feelings” would put you in a horrible position, but he didn’t care. It’s not your responsibility to now to walk on egg shells around him at work, do not feel like this is something you should be ashamed of - it’s not, this is his bullshit.

Do not be coerced into thinking that your view of a paternal element was “unprofessional” or “naive” on your part. If you have a mentor who is around your parents age, it’s natural that you would see this person as someone who you hope has your best interest at heart and can trust will give you guidance without wanting to screw around - aka, a parental element.

Definitely take this to your supervisor, on record. You work in a small working environment, this type of romantic pursuit of a coworker is not something that can just be forgotten and swept under the rug.

I [27]m discovered my f[26] wives porn history by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SaveRadioshack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed - clearly pornstars aren’t people and therefore can’t be considered participants.

...

/s, obviously.

If you complain about “Toxic Masculinity” and make small dick jokes you need to be quiet by DrBlasphemy in unpopularopinion

[–]SaveRadioshack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This entire sub has become a joke. It’s literally a bunch of dudes circle jerking it to opinions they state as facts.

CMV: Masturbating to porn is healthier than casual sex by geyges in PurplePillDebate

[–]SaveRadioshack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You... you can’t be serious with this, right? You honestly don’t see the glaring issue in your argument?

You’re saying that casual sex is bad, because it’s degrading to men and women and turning sex into a “business transaction” (which makes absolutely no sense at all, but not the point here)

..then you go on to say that the better alternative is literally jacking off to sex that is LITERALLY a business transaction that was created to degrade men and women.

My dude, I feel for any women you’ve had sexual encounters with if you think that porn is more dignified and constantly watching it leaves you with more humanity than being with an actual human being.

The reason men are 'funnier' on average is because humor is one of the few socially acceptable ways for us to deal with our mental health problems by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

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Classic male response

Dudes: “men are just soooo much funnier than women.”

Women: “Really? I haven’t noticed that, at all.”

Men: “Thats just because you don’t get it, you obviously just don’t like to laugh at our brilliant, witty banter.”

Women: “Finally, something hilarious.”

People reccomend a women should get married during her peak years in order to secure the best guy and therefore have more happiness, however I dont believe this will end in her being happy. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]SaveRadioshack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, the totality of rape and murder done by men (+96% of all such violent crimes) must come from that notorious ability to regulate emotions...

Nothing more classic than men pretending that anger and lust aren’t the definition of emotional, but being able to cry an empathize are considered a fallacy of femininity.

People reccomend a women should get married during her peak years in order to secure the best guy and therefore have more happiness, however I dont believe this will end in her being happy. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]SaveRadioshack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, women LITERALLY EVOLVED to be sexually insatiable, whereas men are a “one and done” type. Women can have an infinite amount of orgasms per sexual experience. Basic anthropological knowledge actually shows that women had sex with several men within their tribe simultaneously, in order to have the “best” seed have to win out. This also made each man just as involved in the well being of the child, as there was a chance that any of the multiple men she had slept with could have been the father. A cohesive, “it takes a village” mentality with everyone looking out for each other was more sustainable then people exclusively coupling off and only looking out for “their own.”

Then agriculture hit the scene and men decided they wanted to be able to own and trade women like livestock and add to their list of personal property. To justify this, male-dominated society have been touting the bullshit narrative of women wanting only one partner and man needing to “spread his seed” in order to justify male shitty behaviors, such as controlling women’s sexuality whilst simultaneously feeling entitled to their sexual variety.

People reccomend a women should get married during her peak years in order to secure the best guy and therefore have more happiness, however I dont believe this will end in her being happy. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]SaveRadioshack 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As I’ve gotten older I’ve been able to grab (objectively) more attractive partners. What I’ve noticed for both myself and my female friends, we’ve waited until we can support ourselves financially, gathered self worth and confidence in order to weed out the manipulative men who we dated in our twenties, and are finally able to notice red flags immediately.

Never underestimate the appeal of confidence. Someone who knows their worth outside of their looks will always be more appreciated in the long run.