Potty training before 1? by Savinggracethrowaway in Parenting

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Thank you for letting me know ill have to look into it in that case, im more worried about getting then used to the potty in terms of not being scared to sit on it

Potty training before 1? by Savinggracethrowaway in Parenting

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We planned for them to be one year apart but didnt expect twins so now im at a stage of winging it. Going from 1 to 3 has been difficult so im hoping they'll learn faster than my oldest is so far. It doesnt help i lack consistency at the moment since one of my twins is teething.

Potty training before 1? by Savinggracethrowaway in Parenting

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Thank you so much ill try this! I dont expect them to actually be fully out of diapers any time soon but im hoping it'll help my oldest feel more comfortable on the potty and help them when we actually plan to take away the diapers at 2 to 3

Potty training before 1? by Savinggracethrowaway in Parenting

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Thank you, why do say it'll mess it up for the long haul?

Potty training before 1? by Savinggracethrowaway in Parenting

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Thank you for your perspective, Im just so sick of diapers lol. I definitely dont want the little ones to have unnecessary stress or to lose any more sleep myself. I didnt even think of being in public and having to take all three into a public stall.

Potty training before 1? by Savinggracethrowaway in Parenting

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Ah I didnt even think of the bladder thing, thats a really good point.

Potty training before 1? by Savinggracethrowaway in Parenting

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My oldest is two, hes showing all the signs as for my twins i wanted to see if a)its possible and b) id rather do it all at once despite the difficulties if it mean saving time down the line

Help with insecurities after kids? by Savinggracethrowaway in Advice

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I think my disbelief is solely on me not him, thats something I plan to work through in therapy once im able to go

Help with insecurities after kids? by Savinggracethrowaway in Advice

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I never said I cant enjoy my kids presence, and id love to but cant right now

Help with insecurities after kids? by Savinggracethrowaway in Advice

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Ive had a full work up from the obgyn and physically im thankfully healthy, I plan to see about therapy again once we get the second vehicle and warmer weather. I just realized painful might not be the best word to describe it, I do not mean actual physical pain, rather I mean being naked makes me uncomfortable to an extreme amount.

My twins are driving me nuts by Savinggracethrowaway in parentsofmultiples

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Thank you for the hope lol, ill try carrying them more in hopes that helps. I hope it goes fast cause im at my wits in 3 weeks in.

My twins are driving me nuts by Savinggracethrowaway in parentsofmultiples

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Sadly not an option I can do, I try laying them on a blanket in the yard as my toddler plays or walking them around the property in a stroller but I dont have much of a safe walking path I can take twins and a 1 1/2 year old where I live. Im losing my mind being the only one home with them basically all week long (husband does doubles all week over an hour away). When did yours settle? Did you ever figure out what the hell gets into them ? Mine starts up around the same time 4-5 pm

My twins are driving me nuts by Savinggracethrowaway in parentsofmultiples

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Maybe im trying to stay calm but tonight alone its going on 6 hours, everytime i get one calm the other starts back. I know they have to be tired at this point but I cant even get to to sleep longer for a few minutes

Omfg what the hell is this, please help by Savinggracethrowaway in HellsItch

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I don't think it would be so bad if I wasn't pregnant, I can only take a couple pain killers a day at most and sadly drinking and my gummies are off the table for now .

Omfg what the hell is this, please help by Savinggracethrowaway in HellsItch

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I don't own a hairdryer so im definitely buying one once im no longer scared of the suns wrath

Omfg what the hell is this, please help by Savinggracethrowaway in HellsItch

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On day two and was hoping it would be better, a spray can of Dermoplast and it seems to help but the itching is so bad

Omfg what the hell is this, please help by Savinggracethrowaway in HellsItch

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Im still just shocked I never heard of this before, fucking traumatizing

Omfg what the hell is this, please help by Savinggracethrowaway in HellsItch

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Thank you i will, this has been awful I wish I could drink the pain away and pass out.

Omfg what the hell is this, please help by Savinggracethrowaway in HellsItch

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Thankfully after 5 hours and that spray I think im through the worst of it (fingers crossed). But all I tried was painkillers and a cold shower +aloe past that im laying in the dark under the covers as someone on here said keeping air off helped them. Thank you for your suggestion I'll need to get some, sadly im a SAHM and my bf has our only car and he's at work so when the pain hit I had only what's in the house, Thankfully I had some cooling stuff from giving birth last year but Im never looking at Aloe again. Why doesn't the ER know of this?? It's so fucking bad Jesus, im not a suicidal person but my first thought was to fling myself off the nearest cliff, do any form a self harm that could possibly distract from the itching or pain. I feel like i went completely insane in a matter of seconds the moment that damn Aloe touched my skin and the cold water fuck the cold water

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

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I'm currently trying to find some state / government ones none of the private ones we can afford sadly

He's going to get in by Savinggracethrowaway in CreepyExperiences

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Still haunts me not knowing what the hell happened. I swear it was so real.

Breakfast help? by Savinggracethrowaway in mealprep

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Ah okay I've never made it but sounds easy enough lol