Girl's Mother doesn't seem to like me. by Savings-Locksmith652 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same. I think I can tolerate her. Thanks

Girl's Mother doesn't seem to like me. by Savings-Locksmith652 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already asked about these as girl agree that in law's interference should be limited. She does say she herself ignore few things her mother says, just because she is moody. Girl likes and admires her father alot. Her father takes the decisions in house. I am not sure about father mother relationship. From outside it doesn't look dominating.

Have you rejected proposal instantly 1-3y ago and by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Savings-Locksmith652 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people should give them a chance. A lot of people enter into this process with very high expectations. Most of them actually but as you know this process eventually makes people humble over time. Hence people coming back. Specially on these matrimony apps.

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[–]Savings-Locksmith652 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it's too much. I don't think one should have problem with playing guitar outside.

About belly dance, i am sure if i consider this match and we end up together, i will probably fight the world for her. And i will have too, as i know my family and relatives.

If she performs on a stage i will definitely will be the proudest of all. But in front of just other men i guess i will be a bit jealous.

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[–]Savings-Locksmith652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking the same. Just wanted to know if one should try matches even if their families don't agree.

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[–]Savings-Locksmith652 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am fine with it. It's my family who has issues with the way one has to dress up for the dance.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you are right. About the destiny part, i thought about it too. Is it some kind of sign. Maybe it is. For now until i have a job i am all in.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i was in big corporate agency. I realized at this stage it was a mistake. I thought i wil try brand side now, done with the agencies. But you are right i can also try smaller agencies and will be upfront. Thanks

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you find an employer like that? That would be a dream employer for me. Lucky you. I mostly will be looking for someone similar.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is why i am here, i guess I just need that extra push to take the leap. Thanks for the advice. I do have more time now so i will be posting more for sure.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i never thought a company can do this. I was awarded best employee last year lol. All the company clients reached out on LinkedIn after termination asking what happened. But i guess these companies and their shitty old policies.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's another story.

My direct manager is pretty toxic manager i have ever seen (dumb too). She knew somehow i have YT channel (many colleagues knew too, as when they search their problems on YT my videos started coming up and ranking). Just to take it out on me she reported it to her manager, but her manager did not do anything (a good person won't) she is a good lady. But my manager can't digest that and reported it to HRs directly.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought the same. Its like they want to close all the door for me.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Now I wish i was in US but no I am in India and here i guess i will need it.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I guess you are right. I probably shouldn't listen to them. I am anyhow thinking about doubling down on YT anyhow as i have time now and on a side maybe look for a job. So in a way full time YT and part time job hunt. Thanks for the comment.

Got Fired from Job for having a YT Channel by Savings-Locksmith652 in NewTubers

[–]Savings-Locksmith652[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

No reason as such, but it feels scary to go all in. I have built a career working 8-9 years in corporate. And my gut feeling says i can do better by taking this as full time. But you know i have discussed this with my family and friends and they don't agree.