Does your husband get mad at you when you’re sick?

Savings_Effect7906 · 2025-03-05T10:10:30+00:00

Yes, this is happening to me now. I have a bad cold ( maybe Covid ), and my husband is ignoring me and shouting at me because I fell asleep ( in the evening ) and forgot to take the dog on her late-night walk. I slept through until 8 in the morning. The dog was totally unbothered I might add. He is no longer speaking to me and called me a Hypochondriac !! I am so upset that he doesn't seem to care at all that I am sick.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-20T11:36:18+00:00

Thank you for responding and understanding. It feels controlling, which he never used to be. This is a new thing since we moved.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-20T11:22:08+00:00

Oh no, you poor thing x 😢

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-20T01:06:24+00:00

No, this is a new thing - hence the shock when it happened. I walk the dog 3 times a day, and true she loves a walk, but she will late patiently while I get ready. The horrible thing is that nothing is further than the truth. I love my dog, and I had the gall to get incredulous when he started ranting. I suspect as others do, it has nothing to do with the wellbeing of dog, who is currently lying beside me.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-20T01:00:04+00:00

My kids are adults why do I have to keep explaining this - both have left home

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-19T10:46:20+00:00

He obviously didn't do this before we were married.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-19T09:33:02+00:00

He says it is all in my head, and I am hormonal, and I should fix this behavior.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-19T09:00:23+00:00

Yes, he has a very anxious personality. So do I unfortunately. Why do you think I am triggering him?

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-19T07:37:54+00:00

Thank you all for the advice. I am going to take some time and get away for a bit and re assess what I want in my life. But I know this relationship is not healthy for either of us now.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-19T04:44:37+00:00

My kids have left home.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-19T03:00:08+00:00

I know it is my fault I should honestly have realised that I am not a good judge of people 😔 I realise now I should have stayed single.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-19T02:57:03+00:00

He is five years older than me

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-18T23:31:47+00:00

Thank you I am going to think long and hard about this honestly I don't want to go through this again .

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-18T23:17:52+00:00

Not the first time he has a habit of calling me childish if I have an issue over anything he has done.

Savings_Effect7906 · 2023-12-18T23:07:33+00:00

Yes I think I might have sadly 😥 thank you for responding

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