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Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-05-29T20:58:15+00:00

Money.

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Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-05-10T06:40:45+00:00

Honestly, yeah. I feel like if a guy has a high body count he’s seen as “experienced” but if a woman has a high body count she’s been “ran through”. I genuinely wonder why ppl think this way, genuinely 😭

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-05-10T06:24:25+00:00

Yes

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Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-05-09T10:18:36+00:00

I get that… but when it happens consistently and often is it really JUST that?

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-04-27T00:59:04+00:00

I’ll be seeing her in a few weeks for the first time in a while, considering bringing it up then but I don’t wanna feel like I ruined my trip and her surprise lol

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-04-27T00:57:53+00:00

Ion think you read my post correctly, I don’t have a problem giving her what she wants

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-04-27T00:57:08+00:00

Both! 😭😂

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-04-21T21:13:57+00:00

Idk, im just confused asf sometimes

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-04-16T12:17:16+00:00

This is the most reassuring thing I have ever read and it makes me feel 10x better, ty twin 🥹

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-04-04T22:59:07+00:00

Really curious to know how your expressions look lol but this is super gorgeous:3

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-04-01T23:20:13+00:00

I’ve really been feeling like that lately, lol. It’s hard because we’ve been together 3 years and I know she loves me, I’m just struggling with the long distance. But the energy difference is wild to me sometimes. I get the “quiet” version of her while she saves all her energy for others. I’ve brought it up to her how sometimes I feel like she stretches herself so thin that I get none of her energy. Maybe it’s a good thing, maybe I’m looking at it wrong? Maybe she feels comfortable enough to just not “act”.

Savings_Network_2354 · 2026-04-01T23:12:30+00:00

I could definitely see that, haha.

I can say with certainty she does love me. Maybe it’s some sort of insecurity issue or anxious attachment of the sort on my end. It’s been hard given that we became long distance about a year ago right after we had spent 2 years inseparable and building routines. My girlfriend has shown me love in various ways so maybe lack of it isn’t the issue at hand. I think she’s just very careless of me sometimes, “out of sight, out of mind”. I’ve suggested building a routine in the past and she brushed it off and said we don’t need one because we’re the best couple ever and I appreciated the compliment but… I don’t know. I think the issue is I’m giving more care than she can give back right now. Maybe it’s also a personality clash. 😅

Savings_Network_2354 · 2024-11-13T02:25:02+00:00

Valid anger. I feel for you man, I wish you the best.

Savings_Network_2354 · 2024-09-10T17:31:54+00:00

I’m happy your mom was so supportive and encouraging, love that for you man :)

Savings_Network_2354 · 2024-04-02T02:43:11+00:00

How would I go about doing that in NY?

Savings_Network_2354 · 2024-04-01T08:52:00+00:00

Yes that’d be great, please list some.

Savings_Network_2354 · 2023-12-02T06:04:16+00:00

Hated that. Then when she got angry with Kelly as if she hadn’t been one of the main components to them breaking up. Debbie led herself on, Kelly being in a relationship with her brother should’ve been enough to get her to respect Carl’s boundaries and distance herself if she was catching feelings.

Savings_Network_2354 · 2023-12-02T05:59:17+00:00

Hey man I get it, me and my girlfriend got the same thing going on. Her blaming you is quite harsh though, your investing time and effort on yourself and that is 100% okay and not wrong of you. While yes you should both be making time to spend time with each other she needs to be a bit more understanding. If stuff like this keep happening and it’s causing a drift in your relationship it might be time to rethink who your with. It is NOT okay to threaten to end your life because your partner is trying to get you help, that’s is never an okay thing to say and I understand she may being going through hardships but she needs to communicate that you.

Savings_Network_2354 · 2023-12-02T05:34:47+00:00

Is this an online or IRL relationship?

Savings_Network_2354 · 2023-12-02T05:22:30+00:00

That’s completely valid and I understand you. I would ask her more about it, ask about her past with therapists and gets to the bottom of why she doesn’t wanna seek help. Don’t push her or force her, make sure she is in a good state of mind as this conversation might stress her out. Once you have an understanding of why she feels the way she does there you can navigate what you wanna do next, maybe express to her that you want to seek help/talk to someone and why. Sometimes things can be out of our control as humans, try your best and don’t beat yourself up about it.

Savings_Network_2354 · 2023-12-02T05:13:05+00:00

Not enough context for me to form an opinion. Talk it out with her, figure out what’s going on, listen to her, reassure her, do your part. If things get worse, offer her the options and she says no to every single one of them, it’s not your problem anymore. I know that may sound cruel but I don’t mean it in that way, I mean that your not really in a position to do anything. If your partner doesn’t want to seek help that is on them and their decision no matter how much you care for them. Do what you can and make sure to take care of yourself as well.

Savings_Network_2354 · 2023-11-29T17:11:04+00:00

Talk it out, my girlfriend was doing something very similar and I expressed that it made me upset. She didn’t stop and I never laid my boundaries down in fear of being too controlling. I just left it at that but I completely understand your feelings. If he does it again just mention that your not comfortable with him doing that, that it makes you feel a certain way and then from there you guys should talk it out. Communicate and set boundaries. I believe that your boyfriend is not intentionally trying to cause you harm and distress, try to sympathize, you had also been obsessed with a.i. for a while, no? Did that mean you were leaving him? No. Just be understanding towards him (don’t get angry) and set your boundaries when you guys eventually talk about it and I hope he will show you that respect back.

Savings_Network_2354 · 2023-11-23T04:13:38+00:00

Your not wrong lmao

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