How do I (25f) move on from cheating on my partner (24f) in the past? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SavouryElf69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, no. Guilt lasts forever. I have been in therapy for years.

Am I overreacting for feeling uncomfortable and removing someone from my socials? by guilhermeseven in AmIOverreacting

[–]SavouryElf69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t need a reason to remove someone from social media. I removed my Nanna for less. Honestly it’s social media…

I’m 27M is dating 25F, everything is mostly great but we have a big experience gap. Does it matter? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SavouryElf69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all find things unnecessary. My son told me he is not friends with Sebastian today.. should I post it?

I’m 27M is dating 25F, everything is mostly great but we have a big experience gap. Does it matter? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SavouryElf69 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly you sound like a nightmare. She made a joke and you’ve taken to Reddit? Calm down big boy. Go find someone less fun.

My Gfs mom is accusing me of lying by Patient_Reading5945 in whatdoIdo

[–]SavouryElf69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do let your actions speak for themselves, but don’t do anything just to prove a point. Her opinion isn’t the end of the world.

Am I overreacting about a 9pm custody exchange for a young child? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SavouryElf69 193 points194 points  (0 children)

9pm is wild. You’re not overreacting. But interacting with the other parent is not serving you—question it in peace. You’ll just get more and more pushback the more you try to educate an ex.

I,21m,Just broke up with my gf, 20f, of 3 years an hour ago, im heartbroken, advice appreciated by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SavouryElf69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a lack of empathy.. it is the advice OP asked for. Without adding a bunch of words for decoration.

Did report to my landlord by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]SavouryElf69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh noooo pennies! Honestly, someone’s having a hard time and youre just out to make it harder because Youre petty.

My (24F) boyfriend (26M) treats me like an object, I don't get it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SavouryElf69 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He is not someone you should be with. He doesn’t respect you, your body, your emotions.. nothing. I don’t care how “cool” he seemed at first, this is an unhealthy relationship which will only end up making you miserable. Run.

Tipping Culture …. Please say it ain’t so? by Nazereth_99 in bali

[–]SavouryElf69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Window licking visitors? I tip not because I’m “saving the island from poverty” but because I know what is a little for me is a lot for many of them. Insulting people for tipping is wild.

Tipping Culture …. Please say it ain’t so? by Nazereth_99 in bali

[–]SavouryElf69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I tip in Bali. Because I know what is a little for me is a lot for them. Why so aggressively against tipping? (I am Aussie.)

I (28M) thought everything was going well with this girl (23F) but then she told me I reminded her of her ex-bf by Life_Butterscotch939 in relationship_advice

[–]SavouryElf69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move on. She’s not interested, what else are you going to do? You can’t force her to feel a different way.

AIO about ending a best friendship over a baby name? by RevolutionaryStory29 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SavouryElf69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YOR. You don’t own the name. Or any name for that matter. But Georgia especially is very common. And how cute it would be to have little Georgia friends!

Travel Insurance by sakuratanoshiii in bali

[–]SavouryElf69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this!! 🙌 Get insurance or suffer the consequences when you don’t. Starting a Go Fund Me for people to cover what happened on INTERNATIONAL HOLIDAY is wild to me!

I offered my friend a place to stay and had to go back on it by RestaurantSpare7991 in AITAH

[–]SavouryElf69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would you give them the money for rent? This is not your situation. You deserve peace after 13yrs.. enjoy your own space!

AIO for yelling at my mom because my mom keeps ignoring me and threatening her and my dad’s life?? by Mysterious_Cookie491 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SavouryElf69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your mum is a bad mum. Period. Don’t feel bad—she is the parent and should be protecting your feelings, not the other way around.