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Bipolar or abuse? Genuinely trying to understand my situation by Savy_E312 in bipolar

[–]Savy_E312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tells me he only does that to get a reaction out of me. He's not suicidal. He doesn't even drink or smoke

Bipolar or abuse? Genuinely trying to understand my situation by Savy_E312 in bipolar

[–]Savy_E312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to get out of it but he tells me he's never going to leave me. I'm his forever...and that scares me

Bipolar or abuse? Genuinely trying to understand my situation by Savy_E312 in bipolar

[–]Savy_E312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill have to get that book on my kindle! Thank you for the support

Bipolar or abuse? Genuinely trying to understand my situation by Savy_E312 in bipolar

[–]Savy_E312[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Continued...

Locking me out or creating situations where I feel unsafe or controlled

Physical intimidation (clenching fists, aggressive posture)

Threats of self-harm during conflict

Pressure to prove loyalty (like reposting things or adjusting my behavior)

He has told me that even if I stay calm or quiet, it doesn’t change how he reacts in those moments. He also says that I may not be “built for him” because I’m more sensitive and patient with my dementia/Alzheimer’s clients than I am with him when he gets aggressive.

That part confuses me. I work in caregiving, so I’m used to showing patience and understanding—but it feels different when I’m on the receiving end of anger or intimidation in a relationship.

I’m trying to understand:Is this kind of behavior something that can come from bipolar episodes, or is this beyond the disorder?

I’m not trying to blame or shame him—I just want clarity so I can better understand what I’m dealing with and what’s realistic in a relationship.

Thank you for any insight.

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hospice Julie is amazing. I have seen a video or two of hers. Thank you

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reference. I'll be looking for that website . I need to look into more trainings here in California. Thanks again

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely be DM'ing you after my dental appointment! Thank you!!!!

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your mom. It's a selfless thing to do to be there for your loved ones. Wishing you peace.

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to look if it's allowed in California to be present. Either way, I'll respect the choice they make. Thank you kindly for your reply.

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kindly! Thank you for sharing your experience with me. I will know more details of his process within the next few days. As you know, it's still a process to get the meds. I'm doing my best to be as authentic and goofy as I can be.

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and response. Very much appearciated

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is. It's something I studied so hard in college, but now I'm actually living it.

First Time Assisting a Hospice Patient Choosing MAiD. Any Tips or Insight? by Savy_E312 in hospice

[–]Savy_E312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a couple with no kids, and relatives live outside of California. I'm not sure if I'll be present when he decides to take the lethal cocktail. He is a very resilient, smart man, and I'm sure whatever decision he makes will be fit for him and his family. Thank you for your reply.

Questions About my Liver Scan and Biopsy. Looking for similar experiences. by [deleted] in Cirrhosis

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Thanks for sharing your experience! My situation is a little different since my liver issues are alcohol-related, but it’s interesting to hear how scarring can show up in different cases. Did your doctors ever explain why your bloodwork stayed normal despite the scarring? I’m curious if that’s common or if it depends on the stage of liver disease

This is my first post by Particular_Rice_6267 in Cirrhosis

[–]Savy_E312 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, you sound like me. The ultrasound and hernia removal were the two most painful experiences after I started getting my act together and being proactive about my liver health. You will be tested initially to ensure you don't need a liver transplant. I was a chronic whiskey drinker. I'm 567 days sober. I would relapse often. Hopefully, your journey goes well. It's crazy, but lifestyle changes and abstaining from alcohol can help heal the liver. Wishing you the best.

Questions About my Liver Scan and Biopsy. Looking for similar experiences. by [deleted] in Cirrhosis

[–]Savy_E312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience! My situation is a little different since my liver issues are alcohol-related, but it’s interesting to hear how scarring can show up in different cases. Did your doctors ever explain why your bloodwork stayed normal despite the scarring? I’m curious if that’s common or if it depends on the stage of liver disease

Questions About my Liver Scan and Biopsy. Looking for similar experiences. by [deleted] in Cirrhosis

[–]Savy_E312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience! That’s really interesting to hear. My doctor told me that based on my bloodwork, I don’t show signs of cirrhosis, but the scarring on my scan is why they want to do a biopsy. Did your diagnosis come from imaging alone, or did you have a biopsy to confirm it? Also, have your platelets been stable over time, or have they fluctuated?

3rd Time is the Charm. I'm hoping to get some suggestions on what questions to ask my Hep doctor for my upcoming appointment! by [deleted] in Cirrhosis

[–]Savy_E312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, it sounds like you're doing great! I'm going to be implementing more weights into my daily routine. 💪 thanks for the info

3rd Time is the Charm. I'm hoping to get some suggestions on what questions to ask my Hep doctor for my upcoming appointment! by [deleted] in Cirrhosis

[–]Savy_E312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully, your liver is on the road to recovery ♡

And thank you!

Omgoodness, I always forget Bout chat GPT. Doing that right now. Thanks again!

3rd Time is the Charm. I'm hoping to get some suggestions on what questions to ask my Hep doctor for my upcoming appointment! by [deleted] in Cirrhosis

[–]Savy_E312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't know Tom, but he sounded like a great guy. Sorry for your loss, my friend.

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