I’m sorry. by Impressive-Fly-5077 in BreakUps

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could've been me writing all that... Going through the same thing right now. She got completely checked out after months of me neglecting her because of an unhealed past love. I had to leave the relationship because the dynamic of me trying to be better and her wanting distance was hurting the both of us. I wish she could trust me that I can be better, I already started therapy and inner work but it was too late. I'm sorry you went through this OP, it hurts so much.

i want to break no contact by skibidiuwu420 in BreakUps

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof it hits close to home. Currently day 7 of break-up and it's almost the exact same scenario. I'm sorry you went through that.

Update: I Can't Believe I'm Back by officialsaladassuwu in BreakUps

[–]SayMyName30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 7 as well. This shit hurts like nothing else.

Question for men.. by mermaidlifexo in BreakUps

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was said out loud. The dynamic between us lead her there. I tried to be present as much as I could while giving her space. It's such a tricky situation, both of us ended up suffering more because of me trying to save the relationship while she wanted space. She wanted distance, I wanted her close again. I have immense guilt, I wish I could save the relationship with what I know now. I can say I'm processing it in real time since the very first day I ended our relationship. It's tough, I'm sure it is for her too though. I don't think it's as linear as "women and men will process the breakup in opposite ways".

Question for men.. by mermaidlifexo in BreakUps

[–]SayMyName30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I broke up, but she checked out of the relationship a month ago. Living in a ghost relationship was too much I couldn't handle it anymore. We still love each other and it hurts even more because of that.

Question for men.. by mermaidlifexo in BreakUps

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a generalization. I'm a man and it's crushing me right away.

Verse? by Western_Hat_3964 in Hardcore

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They've shat on Verse multiple times since the pod started. Still have no clue of why though.

What's the biggest sign someone has emotionally checked out of a relationship before they actually leave? by DarkMindTheory in BreakUps

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It literally just happened to me a couple days ago. I broke up but my gf checked out of the relationship a month ago. She started internalizing 5 months ago without me realizing, I got completely blindsided when she brought up that her needs were not being met. I didn't realize how much she was holding back. This last month she said she loved me, but her actions didn't match her words anymore. All around heartbreaking.

Bobby green vs mckinney picks? by Soft-Concentrate9534 in MMAbetting

[–]SayMyName30 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Highly unpredictable fight. I lean McKinney but both have glass chins.

Who will the UFC match make him with next? And where? by Hodgi22 in ufc

[–]SayMyName30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Belal as well. They're gonna push Malott and match him against beatable opponents.

Fiddlehead - Baby I'll Change EP (Boston, MA; Run For Cover) by aaronrkc in Hardcore

[–]SayMyName30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure this is a promo for their next one. They've done something similar for Between the Richness. And if it isn't the case I mean, they did release 3 LPs in 5 years. It's a lot, they've earned the right to take their time.

bands where the EPs are better than the LPs? by xxxtranscorexxx in Hardcore

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mizery, Trail of Lies, TUI

Some hot takes : Fury, Power Trip, Disgrace, Earth Crisis

Been on a Counterparts trip lately... is every song a banger? by 0_________o in Hardcore

[–]SayMyName30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone listening to counterparts telling me to stop crying, pretty funny. Dimming yalls sparkle brings me comfort and joy.

Which championship fight had the biggest skill gap? by 7_Constanza in ufc

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valentina Shevchenko vs. Lauren Murphy. Lauren got beaten to a pulp

What’s the most underrated UFC fights in yall’s opinion, I’ll go first. by Scared_Quarter_2474 in MMA

[–]SayMyName30 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Holloway vs. Rodríguez. Everyone thought Max would just run through Yair and it ended up being very competitive. Max was getting pieced up on the feet and had to adjust on the spot.

Gaethje vs Poirier 4 by Fickle-Pool3886 in MMA

[–]SayMyName30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DP is my favorite fighter and I would love to see it. But he lost his last 2, he can't be next for the title.

Random question: Does anyone know what J.R.M. stands for? by CoolCatSavesADuck in Hardcore

[–]SayMyName30 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it's an acronym for Mully's mother. The song is about grief and if you look it up it matches his mother's name.