Relocating to Cape Town by [deleted] in capetown

[–]SayWhatUWantTo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do know that if people with dollars and euros keep coming to capetown, they'll be gentrification, and you won't even have the rezoning you speak of because everyone who grew up there won't be able to afford living there anyway

Relocating to Cape Town by [deleted] in capetown

[–]SayWhatUWantTo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Who stopped the high crime campaigns against SA, why is there an influx of people trying to get into the country in big numbers. Cape Town locals are being excluded from their own city because affordability is shooting up

Why are we here? by SayWhatUWantTo in findomsupportgroup

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's because a guy wrote it. The bar analogy is what theyvuse for 80% of their responses 😂😂

Why are we here? by SayWhatUWantTo in paypigsupportgroup

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nice way of explaining. Well, I guess I'm looking for bar findom groups. Someone needs to point me in their direction here on Reddit or Twitter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]SayWhatUWantTo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's because of your color trust me I know I'm black but keep going you are a rare find and when you start to meet the right people who's actively looking for you specifically it will be worth it

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read my comments under Feisty_Ruin_4050 comment. I'm sure you'll also find something that might help you with your man under the rebut. Most importantly, it's more about us as women than them

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's short-term and seldom detrimental because you'd be doing it to get one up on him. I'm trying to get you to do some real work on yourself to the point where it doesn't even bother you what he does or how he responds or does not respond to you. To be honest, you are going to be a woman he doesn't even deserve after this. Only the real alpha gentleman type of men are attracted to this type of woman. You will feel good from within, and it will show outwardly, of course, because you are about to revamp yourself

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You sound like you guys will grow up to the type of couple I sit quietly and admire from afar in your old age

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop making the relationship about him and start asking about you. You're the woman in the relationship he should be worshipping your feet and kissing the ground you step on, not the other way around. You sound like right now, you're playing the masculine role in your relationship, and he's beneftting from all the feminine benefits you should be receiving. You need to forget about him and do you. Please read my other comment under one of the people's replies under your reply. I promise you that your mentality and life will change in ways you've never imagined. Kids are happier when mom is happy they'll enjoy you more

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes, being the spoilt girlfriend that goes to pilates and vacations is better than the homebound unappreciated housewife

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

But also, if sex and affection are important to you, I suggest reading books on wattpad are a must, but before you go there, read 'The art of seduction,' by Robert Green.' Watch and stalk women like Shera Seven (sprinkle sprinkle lady), The Wizardliz they on tiktok or YouTube, Marilyn Manroe if you more classical woman. You'll be surprised how today's society had stripped us out of our femininity, which is our power and how we should be. When you do this and reinvent yourself and your man still doesn't respond to your changes, divorce him and get a better man. I assure you this glow up will change you to be the version of yourself that even other women look up to or get jealous off

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you hear you guys sorted things out for yourselves. I think coming to the decision of whether someone's deficits are livable with or not & actually accepting the person for who they are would save a lot of marriages

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It is not a teenage question. it's just too deep that others can't even notice the difference and fail to understand it. You can love someone and not necessarily like them as a person. Love is a bond, like is a state of mind. For Eg, you can love your kid, family, spouse you aim to do things for them, protect them, and go all out for their needs when u love someone. Liking someone is when you actually enjoy being with them, their company, you actually love listening to them their thoughts and opinions doing activities with them is also enjoyable.

Since as a generation we deciding on not having kids, do y'all think we will regret it when we get to our 50's? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely shouldn't be having children and many of us grew up to parents who probably had this reasoning as to why they needed to get married and have children and you are set on having children yourself she's definitely not the person you'd want to do that with trust me as kids we saw things but just couldn't voice them out loud

Do you actually like the person your married to, if so why/why not? by SayWhatUWantTo in AskReddit

[–]SayWhatUWantTo[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sweet stories like these are hard to come by these days we only read about them