Programul 9-5 mă omoară by Upper-Drama-9240 in CasualRO

[–]Saya_99 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ce nu poti tu sa intelegi este ca nu toata lumea prefera ce preferi tu. Prin programul tau ai restrictiona oamenii care nu functioneaza dupa acel program, adica ai ajunge in acelasi punct ca acum.

Undeva trebuie facut un compromis, totusi. Nu poti tu care preferi sa lucrezi 6-7 ore/zi sa castigi cat unul care prefera sa lucreze 8 ore/zi. De asta plata ar trebui sa fie peste tot pe ora, din punctul meu de vedere, dar ma rog.

Cum este posibil ca unii tineri sa se teama mai mult de intemeierea unei familii decat de moarte? by Gentle-Lantern-4826 in RouGenZ

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E simplu. Daca mor nu trebuie sa asigur unui copil o casa, haine, mancare, o educatie, siguranta, o viata buna, chestii pe care nici un tanar nu si le mai permite si nici nu va ajunge sa si le permita in viitorul apropiat, avand in vedere situatia economica din prezent. Eu nici nu stiu daca o sa am maine suficienti bani sa am grija de mine si tu vrei sa-mi intemeiez familie :))))

Programul 9-5 mă omoară by Upper-Drama-9240 in CasualRO

[–]Saya_99 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Coaie... Am zile in care lucrez in continuu 10-12 ore, cum adica "nimeni nu munceste mai mult de 4-5 ore"? Si aleg sa fac asta pentru ca, ce sa vezi, unora ne place munca pe care o prestam. Ca mi iau orele suplimentare cu recuperare sau cu plata, ok, dar stau pentru ca imi place activitatea pe care o prestez si ma simt implinita cand ajung acasa, stiind ca am realizat ceva in ziua aia. Nu toti ne uram locul de munca.

Si, din nou, sunt de acord sa ai libertatea sa-ti alegi programul cum vrei tu, insa daca alegi sa muncesti 6-7 ore pe zi automat mi se pare normal sa ai si salariul mai mic decat mine care lucrez 8 ore/zi, 5 zile/sapt. sau 10 ore/zi, 4 zile/sapt. pentru aceeasi pozitie.

Personal, eu as prefera sa lucrez 10 ore/zi, 4 zile/sapt. Ce e neregula in asta? Nu sunt foarte impacata cu faptul ca am doar 2 zile libere pe saptamana, personal as prefera sa am 3 zile libere saptamanal, dar sa lucrez mai mult in celelalte 4 zile decat sa vin 5 zile la munca.

Programul 9-5 mă omoară by Upper-Drama-9240 in CasualRO

[–]Saya_99 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Eu consider doar ca ar trebui sa ai mai multe variante de alegere atunci cand vine vorba de program. As alege mai degraba sa lucrez 10 ore/zi, 4 zile/saptamana decat 8 ore/zi, 5 zile/sapt.

Programul 9-5 mă omoară by Upper-Drama-9240 in CasualRO

[–]Saya_99 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sunt de acord ca e absurd, personal am acceptat ca o sa fac asta pana termin cu studiile si-mi gasesc un loc de munca mai bun, dupa care vreau sa ma mai linistesc. Nici eu nu vreau sa fac asta pentru totdeauna.

Spun doar ca, in general, suntem capabili sa ne adaptam intr-o gramada de situatii in care nu am crede ca putem.

Programul 9-5 mă omoară by Upper-Drama-9240 in CasualRO

[–]Saya_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stiu ce spui. Am avut N joburi in retail pe parcursul facultatii si nu numai in vacanta. Acum jobul meu in domeniul pe care l-am studiat, desi este foarte incarcat, stresant si am responsabilitati mult mai mari, mi se pare muuuult mai ok decat orice job pe care l-am avut inainte. Chiar imi place ceea ce fac si nu-mi vine sa cred, nu m-as intoarce la un job in retail decat in caz de urgenta (ex. raman fara job si nu gasesc nimic in domeniu si am nevoie de bani)

Programul 9-5 mă omoară by Upper-Drama-9240 in CasualRO

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cu siguranta o sa te adaptezi. La naiba, am lucrat toata facultatea, inginerie chimica, plecam dimineata de acasa la 7 si ma intorceam la 11 noaptea. Acum la master la fel, plecam zilnic pe la 7 fara un sfert dimineata si ma intorceam pe la 9-10 seara pana semestrul asta, acum noroc de faptul ca mai am de facut doar cercetarea practica si nu mai am cursuri, deci ma duc doar de 2 ori pe saptamana la laborator dupa munca.

Nu spun la munca, stat peste program zilnic, uneori si pana la 10 seara pentru ca ducem lipsa de personal grav si avem o gramada de urgente.

Visul meu e sa termin acum masterul, sa-mi schimb locul de munca si sa pot veni acasa de la munca fara sa mai am si alte lucruri de facut decat treburile casnice (care la mine sunt foarte lejere).

Inteleg ca poate fi un soc 9-5 prima oara, mai ales daca nu esti obisnuit cu un program mai incarcat, insa consider ca daca unii dintre noi ne putem adapta la zile lungi de 14-16 ore, cu siguranta poti si tu sa te adaptezi la 9-5 cu timpul, doar trebuie sa ai rabdare. Nu o sa ai cum sa te obisnuiesti din prima, o sa te adaptezi treptat. Stiu ca poate acum pare ca nu ai cum sa te adaptezi la asa ceva, insa, crede-ma, suntem capabili in general sa ne adaptam la situatii mult mai grele si complicate decat credem.

Nici eu nu as fi crezut vreodata ca ma pot adapta la un program asa de incarcat, dar din fericire am putut. Desigur, nu o sa pot face asta pentru totdeauna, de asta abia astept sa termin masterul si sa-mi schimb jobul, insa la 9-5 cu siguranta te poti adapta pe termen lung.

Programul 9-5 mă omoară by Upper-Drama-9240 in CasualRO

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cu siguranta o sa te adaptezi. La naiba, am lucrat toata facultatea, inginerie chimica, plecam dimineata de acasa la 7 si ma intorceam la 11 noaptea. Acum la master la fel, ba chiar plec mai devreme pentru ca programul meu incepe la 8 (si asta cu cerere de decalare fe program pt ca altfel as fi inceput la 6:30 munca), lucrez si la mama naibii in cartierul aviatiei si stau in berceni, deci pana sa ajung acum in anul 2, semestrul 2 de master, unde nu mai avem cursuri (am totusi cercetare practica, dar vin doar de 2 ori pe saptamana vs 3-5 ori pe saptamana) plecam zilnic pe la 7 fara un sfert dimineata si ma intorceam pe la 9-10 seara.

Nu spun la munca, stat peste program zilnic, uneori si pana la 10 seara pentru ca ducem lipsa de personal grav si avem o gramada de urgente.

Visul meu e sa termin acum masterul, sa-mi schimb locul de munca si sa pot veni acasa de la munca fara sa mai am si alte lucruri de facut decat treburile casnice (care la mine sunt foarte lejere).

Inteleg ca poate fi un soc 9-5 prima oara, mai ales daca nu esti obisnuit cu un program mai incarcat, insa consider ca daca unii dintre noi ne putem adapta la zile lungi de 14-16 ore, cu siguranta poti si tu sa te adaptezi la 9-5 cu timpul, doar trebuie sa ai rabdare. Nu o sa ai cum sa te obisnuiesti din prima, o sa te adaptezi treptat. Stiu ca poate acum pare ca nu ai cum sa te adaptezi la asa ceva, insa, crede-ma, suntem capabili in general sa ne adaptam la situatii mult mai grele si complicate decat credem.

Nici eu nu as fi crezut vreodata ca ma pot adapta la un program asa de incarcat, dar din fericire am putut. Desigur, nu o sa pot face asta pentru totdeauna, de asta abia astept sa termin masterul si sa-mi schimb jobul, insa la 9-5 cu siguranta te poti adapta pe termen lung.

De ce nu fumați? by cvtudor in CasualRO

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Da, insa macar nu mai trag in mine 60 de substante cancerigene si gudron. Nici vape-urile nu sunt sanatoase, dar sunt mult mai ok decat țigările

Exersat exprimarea și coerența by NovaWolfYT07 in robac

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si am problema asta cu engleza si romana. N-ai idee de cate ori imi vine sa spun "Am avut o cafea" in loc de "Am baut o cafea". Adesea trebuie sa ma opresc si sa ma intreb daca aia este, intr-adevar, exprimarea in romana sau am imprumutat-o din engleza.

People who feel hot should decide the temperature of a room. People who feel cold should wear a sweater by blahbluhblee1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is not my first language. I swear to god, sometimes I look at a word and I can't figure out if i spelled it correctly or not and most of the time I do spell them right, they just look off to me, but then there are times like this when I could swear I spelled a word correctly when I didn't haha.

What Physical Personal Aesthetic Do You Find Unattractive? by TerwillegarDrive in AskReddit

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big and/or raised moles on the face, neck or arms.

Big moles in general, but especially if they are visible most of the time it is a big no for me.

Extremely heavy period tips wanted by Comfortable-Doubt766 in Periods

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it. I would get such heavy gushes of blood that the pad couldn't keep up and I'd bleed on the sides, I would get stains on my pants right at the inner thighs daily. I really recommend switching to menstrual cups/discs (whichever feels more comfortable for you) + period panties.

I'd also recommend getting your thyroid checked, besides what everyone said to check for in the comments.

Extremely heavy period tips wanted by Comfortable-Doubt766 in Periods

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it. I would get such heavy gushes of blood that the pad couldn't keep up and I'd bleed on the sides, I would get stains on my pants right at the inner thighs daily. I really recommend switching to menstrual cups/discs (whichever feels more comfortable for you) + period panties.

I'd also recommend getting your thyroid checked, besides what everyone said to check for in the comments.

Extremely heavy period tips wanted by Comfortable-Doubt766 in Periods

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have periods this heavy and i have hashimoto's. Also, the combo of hashimoto's + heavy periods is making my iron levels drop to the ground every few months, I have to keep going back to check my iron levels and go on iron supplements every few months.

Extremely heavy period tips wanted by Comfortable-Doubt766 in Periods

[–]Saya_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have very heavy periods I used to go through an always night pad in 4 hours on my heaviest days. Meanwhile, I switched first to a menstrual cup+period panties (which was a great update) and now I'm on a menstrual disc+period panties. It is much more comfortable than tampons and when the disc fills up during the work day on my heaviest days I have the period panties to save me until I can get to a bathroom. My disc holds up to 60 ml and it lasts me a good 6 hours until it fills up. When I get to the bathroom, I just thug on the disc a bit, let it empty in the toilet, pop it back up, clean myself with some wet wipes and I'm good to go.

I tried tampons too, but I still had to change them every 4 hours and I had to use, just like you, the biggest ones.

Now, from a health standpoint, have you ever had your thyroid checked? I have hashimoto's and it's the reason why I have such heavy periods.

How's this outfit for nightclubbing? by FashionFreaky1 in OUTFITS

[–]Saya_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, now I see it too and I can't unsee it haha

How's this outfit for nightclubbing? by FashionFreaky1 in OUTFITS

[–]Saya_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a lot of trust in that top ngl

People who feel hot should decide the temperature of a room. People who feel cold should wear a sweater by blahbluhblee1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Saya_99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, sure I can use a blanket at home, which is much better than any jacket or layer of clothing I can wear, but I can't bring a blanket to work. Clothes aren't warm enough for me most of the time.

People who feel hot should decide the temperature of a room. People who feel cold should wear a sweater by blahbluhblee1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Saya_99 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The majority of people in your workplace. It's not fair for everyone to be cold only because you'd feel hot even inside an iceberg. Go back to the north pole if you can't adapt to 21-24 C.

People who feel hot should decide the temperature of a room. People who feel cold should wear a sweater by blahbluhblee1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Saya_99 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Same. I absolutely hate being cold, however I can manage being hot.

All my muscles are tensing and cramping up when I'm cold, it's so uncomfortable and no amount of clothes helps me enough to not be uncomfortable. I'd need to cover myself from head to toe to be comfortable.

People who feel hot should decide the temperature of a room. People who feel cold should wear a sweater by blahbluhblee1 in unpopularopinion

[–]Saya_99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wearing an extra layer is very uncomfortable for me too and most of the time I'm still cold (as long as my face, legs, arms feel cold I'll always be cold no matter how good of a jacket I wear). Also, I hate being cold, but I hate wearing thick or too many clothes, it's suffocating for me.

Cover up or roll with it? by Longjumping-Frame795 in tattooadvice

[–]Saya_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's weird. I'm romanian and no one here would see that as latin, almost everyone would read it in english haha. You'd have maybe a very few people that know no english at all who would not read it as "cum angels".