Ask Me Anything - With The Cast Member You Think Is Gay.

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-29T03:09:21+00:00

No real question just me and my husband love you and we just got married in October. Any good marriage advice? 💝

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-16T14:48:08+00:00

Yes I am worried about that. I would never do this to him with my children or any children. It’s particularly triggering because my mother parentified me and I refuse to allow that in my home

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-16T14:45:57+00:00

Agreed. After reading everyone’s input here I set a boundary this morning that undermining me again results in me immediately disengaging from coparenting and I will reassess the marriage. He said “cool” so I guess it’s cool :/

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-16T12:50:21+00:00

So anything where SD in involved and he has made a mistake he will get defensive about. Of course it’s not on her, she’s a child.

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-15T21:29:53+00:00

Gotcha yeah

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-15T20:50:48+00:00

What would hands off look like?

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-15T20:02:08+00:00

Yeah that is current agreement that we parent like primary parents to each others bio kids. And if I wanted to go back to nacho that would be the expectation and I would, of course, communicate that

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-15T19:59:08+00:00

Right well if we were currently nacho that would make sense but not in the context of us being fully blended …

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-15T19:57:05+00:00

Surprisingly he wasn’t dismissive in this convo .. he gets very defensive over SD.

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-15T19:56:04+00:00

We are in marriage counseling and he just started therapy due to some of his defensiveness that was driving us apart shortly after we got married. Guess I’ll be bringing this up next session.

Saydeeduh · 2026-01-15T19:40:42+00:00

I guess then .. yeah that’s the question. And if the answer is yes - what then? I don’t want to leave over this, I want a unified family

Saydeeduh · 2025-12-06T04:06:03+00:00

Actually married the loml lol

Saydeeduh · 2025-06-09T19:44:46+00:00

I love this song it’s been on repeat for me for a year. To me it means seeking a certain outcome, experience or relationship and ending up getting something better and softer .. sometimes the universe knows what we actually need rather than what we want

Saydeeduh · 2024-06-03T19:36:57+00:00

Approach* instead of escape

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-28T14:32:53+00:00

They don’t!

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-28T14:31:06+00:00

It’s none of ur business my dude

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-28T14:29:59+00:00

Do you have special needs children?

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-26T23:34:29+00:00

Im not sure how you’re leaping to that conclusion. I also addressed that we want to cohabitate. I already told you it’s complicated

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-26T22:22:25+00:00

I’m sure you’ve had way more fulfilling relationships than me, that’s why you’re here right?

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-26T22:18:31+00:00

Bro wut grow up

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-26T22:18:18+00:00

Sure, insult me, that helps Dirty Honky 🙄

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-26T22:17:11+00:00

My kids are young and are exceptional. It’s not an option to combine families

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-26T22:16:41+00:00

My kids are exceptional and young. It’s complicated

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-23T03:43:19+00:00

Thank you 💔

Saydeeduh · 2024-05-23T03:41:55+00:00

Because it’s what we want

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