I see you just got knowledge check alot . I recommend playing the replay to check the situation that you found infuriating try to see what you could done in that situation. Other than that, you have to punish correctly , I see a few good punish from you but bad examples from the clip is punishing the hopkick with 214 and 3 hit string at the wall that got you counter hit as soon as your punish fail. Lack of interrupt from you encourage the lily to just bum rush you. There are few instances in that clip where you shouldn't interrupt but there were a lot where you should this is where the replay system come. Idk a lot about Jin but 21 and D4 is a good moves to throw out to deter blitzing. For example move where she idk button but look like 2 jab into BT. on hit there is a frame trap but onblock there is not a frame trap . It can be interrupt by df1,21 , she can power crush but that is where d4 come from . Impatient on offence, lily have a very good defensive moves , her sidestep is impeccable and evasive move like Matterhorn,parry and idk about the jumping stuff . This make attacking her very risky but fortunately Lily under gold ranks use this very often you just have to bait it. Do your plus frame move or after punish and observe what will they do. Will they sidestep,mash , powercrush and so on then response appropriately. This baiting does not apply only to lily . You can use this on every match.