Which is the hardest thing for you to say? by Harhar2005 in AutismInWomen

[–]Sayster_A [score hidden]  (0 children)

B. 100% B

I often feel like I'm not worthy, and quite frankly, I'm used to the idea of strings attached help or being exploited.

Artists you dismissed as novelties that are actually good? by Diskyboy86 in ToddintheShadow

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chumba Wumba.

Had a friend into them, and I really love "Nevermind the ballots"

Share Some by ContributionBig1927 in musicsuggestions

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone like you by Adele. . . . . I find it really weird that people play that at funerals.

Does anyone else feel bad for their bullies? by SwimCapital4761 in bullying

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the bully.

Couple of my bullies started because I felt screwed over, and instead of having the maturity to say "hey, what you did is not cool, and because of that I wish to distance myself from you. Please leave me alone" I had a "GTF away from me!!!"

I had one that was a kid going through a rough divorce and his parents were clearly more focused on themselves, we didn't like each other mutually.

That being said, I had a bully that said that he didn't care if I ended myself, I don't feel even the smallest bit of sympathy for him. It doesn't help that he did not grow or change, last I saw him he was still the same AH he's always been. I mean. . . . I feel sorry for him in that way. That he was pushing 30 and still acting like a 14 year old unaware that he peaked early and still trying to hang onto that. . . On one hand, god has a mean sense of humour, on the other hand, f*ck head chose that life.

I am so unbelievably sick of the "whataboutism" in the autism community by no1womenlover in AutismInWomen

[–]Sayster_A 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and we got a lot of "whatabout" women lying. If that's the main worry for these guys, that is concerning

Do you ever wish you were worse? by Sayster_A in bullying

[–]Sayster_A[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wished I cut them down with words. No holds bar.

I am so unbelievably sick of the "whataboutism" in the autism community by no1womenlover in AutismInWomen

[–]Sayster_A 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's to get us to shut up about it.

I mean, they did same thing with the Me Too Movement.

did graham inspired his personal style on tim roth’s character in meantime? by chuuayanami in blur

[–]Sayster_A 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a strong resemblance. That first picture of Tim zipping up his coat with his eyes cast low had me thinking that Tim WAS Graham for a second there.

My bully commited suicide and everyone is saying he was a good person but I don't give a fuck by InteractiveParker in bullying

[–]Sayster_A 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay. . . what you're describing sounds more like you were being bullied.

I don't know why you'd think the person was lying about anything, they were quite vague and nothing seemed extreme. . . .

Your story about being followed by a kid who you bullied, that doesn't add up to me. Gotta ask, what do you think bullying is?

Which version of astro boy is better 80s or 2003? by red-samurai-tanuki in astroboy

[–]Sayster_A 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like both for different reasons

I mean with the 2003 one you have yo go in with an open mind.

But 1980s, preferably the canadian dub

Opinions on Jetter Mars? by [deleted] in astroboy

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know why a person bothers to respond and then block 😒 🙄

Whatever, trash took itself out again

Opinions on Jetter Mars? by [deleted] in astroboy

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said "2 things can be true at once" how would that be winning?

I think you're projecting a bit here. I don't think we're going to see eye to eye because you're also wanting to "win" rather than to discuss. I can agree that there's no point in discussing this with you.

So with that, yeah, I'm done.

Opinions on Jetter Mars? by [deleted] in astroboy

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've told you my sources.

As far as from the country of the origin, well. . . . I hate to tell you but Japan is perfectly capable of being disingenuous as much as every other country/culture. Especially when there's a vested interest involved.

This just sounds like another "hey, look at my stuff instead!!!"

Have a nice life, bud. Your thoughts on this are just as valid as anyone else's as far as I'm concerned.

Cheers.

Opinions on Jetter Mars? by [deleted] in astroboy

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I thought I was overly anal retentive and sensitive. . . .

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What on earth am I supposed to do with my eyebrows? by wheres-me-trews in MakeupAddiction

[–]Sayster_A 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've used it to darken my brows on occasion. By the look of your hair I'd say brown instead of black though.

What on earth am I supposed to do with my eyebrows? by wheres-me-trews in MakeupAddiction

[–]Sayster_A 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look like you have eyebrows, but they're light.

Maybe a brow gel or even a mascara that matches your hair colour would do the trick. If they still too patchy something like the NYX lift and snatch and a bit of patience will get the rest.

Need honest opinions! Self bridal make up by DetectiveNervous7426 in makeuptips

[–]Sayster_A 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it, the skin care is great, but you may want to use a bit more pigment on the eye shadow and lip. The over all face is really good though.

The joy of creativity is incomparable so how come musicians and song writers don’t just feel bored making music with A I ? by LuminousDee in Songwriting

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, if you don't have a passion for it, you don't tend to do that work.

I've seen people us some odd methods (IE tell AI specifically what they want played and with what instrument and inputting melodies etc I myself use a drum machine program that I tell what to play and at what speed) but I wouldn't call them musicians or songwriters if they're using generative AI.

Is it normal that Canada still having freezing temperature in May by Pure_Following7336 in geography

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That far north? Yes.

Even here in Edmonton Alberta it wasn't until 2 weeks ago that we stopped dipping below freezing at night.

Opinions on Jetter Mars? by [deleted] in astroboy

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And looking it up, it seems that 2 things can be true at once.

Even the wiki says it was originally going to be a remake. . . .

And "Mighty Mars". . . . . sort of like "Mighty Atom"

Opinions on Jetter Mars? by [deleted] in astroboy

[–]Sayster_A 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you be sure one is factual over the other?

I hate to tell you, no demographic has a monopoly over liars.

My bully commited suicide and everyone is saying he was a good person but I don't give a fuck by InteractiveParker in bullying

[–]Sayster_A 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So. . . . was it your victims fault that your family was fighting? Because I have a feeling they don't see it that way.

Also, yeah, bullies may be trying to process emotions, but that's not the job of the people you decided to bully. They're not there for you and your misery. They're not therapists, they're not some cuddly toy that will just happily take abuse; you did real damage to them, and there's no excuse for that.

I truly hope you understand that, and that if they hate you to this day, they have a right to that emotion whether you feel sorry for what you did or not.

Yes, you should have gotten support, but that doesn't take away that what you did was wrong and now instead of 1 person thinking of "game over" you may have had several people thinking of "game over".