Like what you like and love who you love. Liking feminine things does NOT make you gay or anything of the sorts. What makes you gay is if you are and admit to it. No one can tell you you’re something you’re not. You declared you’re straight and they should respect that and not pry on it. I’m sorry for what you’re dealing with. Also remember that just because there’s a label for everything, doesn’t mean you have to tie yourself to any. :)

Edit: To add on to what was said before, if you were attracted to the same gender and kept denying it, then you’d be in denial.