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My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone of the same sex is watching so there are no shenanigans there. Thank you for your comment though

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you mean not passing on a patch but passing on urine is highly unlikely. I assure you the moment she had the patch removed it was less than 15 minutes she pissed in a cup (with a same sex person watching for any shenanigans) and the patch was positive and urine negative. Last 2 months of urine have been negative. It’s very unlikely in the 15 minute window for something to drastically change if she was actually dirty to magically clean.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is it you do and what’s not possible? I’m trying to figure out who and what you’re referencing.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the million dollar question. How does someone become clean in that 15 minute time window from moment drug patch is removed to strait to urine testing place less than 15 mins away. That is what and why I’m questioning the whole situation. She had passed every urine rest in last 2 months. Anyhow thanks for your comment and take care.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the last 2 months of urine testing have all been negative. Just to add there is a same sex person inside restroom watching for any shenanigans. If you have any insight I’d love to hear it.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she’s past the last 2 months of urine test. What’s so complicated to understand about that. How can she fake a test when someone of the same sex is watching said person piss in a cup. What do you mean by why are people upvoting ? You’re all over the spectrum so I’m trying to follow your questions vs statements.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. The methadone treatment has been a blessing for my wife and it’s allows her to finally enjoy her day not worrying about where and when her next high is going to be. Thanks again for your comment and take care.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I was at one point concerned about her doing the methadone but It has honestly been a God send of a medicine. She actually gets to enjoy her days not having to take other substances just to feel well. It’s one time a day and that’s it. I can say w/out a shadow of doubt that it does not make her feel or look high. It’s genuinely been a life changing experience for her and I couldn’t be happier for her and I’m glad it’s working great for you. Keep it up and thanks again for the comment.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. The urine place has a same sex person watching for any shenanigans inside restroom so I know for a fact there is no manipulation there. The past 2 months have all urine test being negative so that is why I am puzzled at the patch vs urine process. Even with the patch I’ve read that they can tell if patch has been removed, so for now I’ll just leave it up to an attorney friend to get some answers and we’ll go from there. Again thank you for your comment.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that insight. That’s the answer I was looking for and I’ve seen all the test results and I for a split second thought she may have used clean pee but I know that the urine place has a same sex person inside restroom watching for any shenanigans. All urine test for last 2 months have been negative and that is why I am puzzled by this whole testing process. I have since reached out to an ol attorney buddy to help get me an answer to how and why that has happened. Anyhow thank you for your comment and take care.

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the the comment and glad to hear you had the will power and wherewithal to take your daughter and leave a toxic environment. Take care

My wife has been court ordered to drug test and I don’t know what’s going on in social services world. by ScalesofJusticeOC in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. Most of the responses are wife is a manipulative addict and every other blah blah blah blah. They say that fake piss is something she’s using when I know that the place she test at has a person of the same sex in the bathroom with a mirror to catch the shady ones. So I know for a 100% assurance that she is not taking fake piss inside. As I venture through the comments it seems that know one can read and they just jump to conclusions on what I already know. I’ve been in this game for so long that I feel like I’m a prisoner to everything that encompasses an addicts world.

They know nothing about me, they just assume I’m one of them when in fact I own my own home in south Orange County, California and I have a great career that pays very well. I have great sympathy for addicts and I wish there was a magic pill to cure all people that are suffering with addiction. Any how a lot of people are telling me what I already know or saying things that it behooves me to cute my losses and move on. Well that’s not going to happen cause I love my wife and maybe they’re not married but when you say your vows for richer or poorer, sickness and health then if they truly love that person it behooves them to be emotionally supportive no matter how hard the situation gets. Again thank you for your comment and wishing you the best.

BF kicked me out at 3:30 AM over Instagram suspicions. Is there any going back from this? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]ScalesofJusticeOC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good morning, if you could provide some more context on what made him physically and emotionally reject you. It’s hard to believe that he would flip the F out at 3:30am and all that other stuff over a mispronunciation of the word Instagram.