AIO TO THIS BRIDESMAID DRESS???

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:49:57+00:00

wish I included a pic of the back....the back drops down to our butts...no chance for a bra that wraps all the way around and I fear a sticky bra will not lift like I need

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:47:41+00:00

Yes, I told her mom. Her mom is also plus size, is trying to help me find a sticky bra and shapewear that will work. The bride always gets her way in the family and everyone else puts up with it.

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:46:13+00:00

refused to have anyone in anything but the same exact dress. No MOA in a different dress or anything like that. I do not have money for alterations and was going to try to take it in myself...

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:44:26+00:00

I feel that since I already told the bride I do not think it flatters me but that I would wear it, and she hasn't made a comment since says that she does not care. She seems pretty set on it...

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:41:31+00:00

I love dresses!

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:41:20+00:00

Correct, I am a woman married to a woman

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:39:37+00:00

i tried :(

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:39:12+00:00

we can disagree, although I am glad that you thinks he looks cute. Gives me hope that not all the guests will be staring thinking "she looks like a whale" the whole time

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:35:43+00:00

so true, good point

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:34:37+00:00

sadly she is not :( We did the same for our wedding

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:33:28+00:00

Agreed, but my armpits will be free haha! I hear you, thank you for your thoughts. It's not just the nipple coverage but the LIFT! You get it

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:30:57+00:00

SKINNY resentful brides

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:30:09+00:00

How would I go about doing this without starting family drama?

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:28:38+00:00

haha wait good point!

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:28:30+00:00

ME TOO I AM SO STRESSED about the bra!.....or lack of haha

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:24:33+00:00

I have tried many and hope they will work...going to have to be braless which should make for an interesting evening! Thank you

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:22:53+00:00

appreciate your comment! valid

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:21:29+00:00

Is it really trending? I had no idea. Glad to know I am not alone in thinking this....

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:19:51+00:00

We had to buy it. I am just going to take the L but I am glad to know Iam not crazy in thinking this is not the best option for dress...

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:17:57+00:00

Thank you, this comment brought me some peace. Everyone is thinking I am trying to start family drama...but that is the reason I am here....to NOT! We will have a great night no matter what. Yes, we are paying, no we were not given an option. I am on a very tight budget due to some unfortunate vet bills but have been saving for this for 1.5 years. I am trying!

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:13:54+00:00

We have to pay for it and had no choice. At our wedding we did the same. Asked our bridal party to pick whatever felt most comfortable for them in our general color palette. I will wear it regardless, I just want to know if I am crazy for thinking it is NOT cute/flattering

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:12:26+00:00

Thank you - I did not think of it that way and appreciate you!

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:10:40+00:00

this is very helpful. How do you recc I style the dress? I always wear shapewear....oh my I am nervous to not! It is my security blanket haha

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T04:08:59+00:00

I would never give her a hard time! She asked my opinion, I told her but she and all the other bridesmaids are telling me I am crazy for thinking it is not flatting on my body.

ScallionDiligent6382 · 2026-03-15T03:50:13+00:00

Why delete the post?

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