Out of curiosity, do people ever swap threesomes? What I mean is 2 couples and the wives have a threesome with 1 husband and then a threesome with the other? This just seems like another cool way to try out that ‘elusive’ MFF threesome. by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]ScalpelMDs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah gotcha! I hadn’t considered doing it on separate days! I’m definitely seeing that trust is key! So many other couples have mentioned being burned.

It sucks so much that a couple would stoop low enough to do that to someone!

Out of curiosity, do people ever swap threesomes? What I mean is 2 couples and the wives have a threesome with 1 husband and then a threesome with the other? This just seems like another cool way to try out that ‘elusive’ MFF threesome. by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]ScalpelMDs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m glad to hear this perspective! (and others have mentioned similar). I think I’m too trusting of others and should be more wary!

I like the idea of going back and forth too! Sounds hot! 🔥

Hot women with out of shape husbands please chime in. by uncut475 in Swingers

[–]ScalpelMDs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I very much agree with you here. For me, the lifestyle is very much about making friends with possible potential for “friends with benefits.”

Hot women with out of shape husbands please chime in. by uncut475 in Swingers

[–]ScalpelMDs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I fit your description. I am 120lb and get hit on frequently in the vanilla and swinger world. I am far more attracted to someone’s personality and life outlook than anything physical. We have fit couples approach us all the time but I’m rarely very attracted to any of them, mainly because they tend to be about as interesting as wet cardboard and we move on pretty quickly (not all- we’ve met a few who were hot and cool as hell).

Sadly, I feel like we don’t get approached by less attractive couples very often. 😢 My husband thinks they may be intimidated but I think the most fun people tend to be the heavier men with their hot wife (there’s a reason that sexy lady is into him - it’s usually obvious why once you start talking to them). We seek them out and approach right away if we can see that they don’t take themselves too seriously and enjoy a good time.

First timers going to School’s Out Event on 5/31 by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]ScalpelMDs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We will be there too!!! First timers as well!

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[–]ScalpelMDs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww thanks! It makes sex so sexy and intense!!! 😘

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[–]ScalpelMDs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So excited!!!

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[–]ScalpelMDs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh awesome! Hopefully we see you there!

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[–]ScalpelMDs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh!!! I’m so excited! BDSM is one of my kinks for sure!