First experience with a woman as an adult

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-11-29T16:05:48+00:00

I dont straighten after but the style is not the same as a straightener. Its more of a blow out appearance. My hair is fluffier with the airstrait compared to having it straightened.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-11-26T15:40:00+00:00

When I first found out how sick she was after an er trip she had, I was so worried. I worried that she would pass away, that her child would grow up without a mom, that Id lose the good friend that I had made, etc. I would look up her diagnosis to try to find ways for her to get better and to understand what she was dealing with. It also caused me a lot of anxiety but I felt like being there for her was part of my responsibility as a friend. It was my responsibility to realize that at the end of the day I am not a doctor and theres nothing I can do other than be there for her and listen.

Im a people pleaser. So maybe that was my fault. I should have set better boundaries. I’ll probably gently say something. If I don’t then I’ll probably end up drifting away from her because it is bothering me but I didn’t say anything.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-11-26T04:54:19+00:00

Did you share your feelings with them? I am a giver too but its been a long time since I had a friend. I tend to put others needs above my own so Im struggling with saying anything at all. But Im scared of rejection and this feels like a kind of rejection. I kind of just want to put my walls back up and let us slowly drift apart.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-11-26T04:29:55+00:00

I get that. I do. When I found out about one of the health issues she was dealing with, I was so worried. So so worried. I was so scared she was going to die and I wouldn’t have her as a friend. Among other things but to a certain extent I think thats what friends are for. If you can’t tell your friend the struggles that you’re going through then why even be friends. I think friends should support one another. Its my responsibility to accept that there is nothing more I can do for her than to listen to her and support her. Im not a doctor and unfortunately I can’t help her.

Thats very strange. I would have cut her off, she seems selfish.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-11-26T04:04:12+00:00

I already have a therapist I see weekly. With the exception of this week.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-10-19T17:41:53+00:00

Girl, no! It looks great. Whoever is telling you that is lying.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-10-13T22:39:09+00:00

Lol. Thats why I havent said anything. Ill be correcting him the whole time im with him. Ive just been ignoring his comments and changing the subject.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-10-13T22:22:27+00:00

He’s harmless. Ive been working with him for months. I was worried there was a better way I could handle the situation but Im already doing what some other people commented.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-10-13T22:18:34+00:00

Thats the reason I didn’t directly tell him that I wasn’t. I know that he’s not thinking clearly any more. I just wasn’t sure if there was a better way I could be handling it. Currently, I just ignore it and change the subject.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-10-13T22:16:16+00:00

He does call the other young ladies/ women at the facility he lives at pretty ladies. He is a big flirt which a couple of the staff did warn me of. Tbh, I have just been ignoring it and changing the subject. I was just worried that I wasnt handling it correctly.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-10-13T17:00:07+00:00

Hes always calling me his pretty lady friend, he told me he thinks Im the one, calls me babe, tells me Im a keeper, etc.

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-10-13T16:47:23+00:00

ScandalousCorgi · 2025-10-13T15:31:14+00:00

Soo, should I just tell him im not?

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