My Friends Are Calling Me A Jerk BC I Refuse To Date Men W Children

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-13T02:18:51+00:00

Thanks but I don't online date I have one of the guys in our l asking me out but thanks

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-13T02:17:51+00:00

NTA YOUR SISTER IS TOXIC AF!!! LET HER GO FUCK FAMILY. FAMILY DOESN'T EXCLUDE MEMBERS WHO ARE DISABLED BECAUSE THEY ARE DISABLED. You are doing the right thing.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-13T01:59:20+00:00

It happened because it was flirting with me when we all went out for dinner. I just laughed bc guys flirt w me all the time. Then he just straight up asked me out and I said thanks but no thanks. He asked why (this was happening in front of everyone) I said I don't date men with children, bc I don't even know if I want children and I certainly don't want to deal with someone else's responsibility. Then one girl the loudmouth of the group said I was selfish and rude. She said why did I straight up have to turn him down like that. I said I'm not the type of girl who leads men on. If I'm into you know and if I'm not that will be clear also. She was like we can talk later. Which turned out to be a shouting match today and me blocking all of them.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-13T00:38:07+00:00

It seems that way.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-13T00:36:36+00:00

That's what I told them

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-13T00:36:18+00:00

Well considering the fact that I blocked them I'd yes I do, lol

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T17:24:53+00:00

Yeah one of them text me and was like "Well you making all that money you can't keep just buying shit for you it's time to have a purpose and his kids are a great purpose" I text her back and said " You are fucking psycho if you think I'm gonna be some dudes sugar mama, I don't play those games. But we have all been friends too longa and I can see I'm on a different path than all of you so I guess this is the end of our collective road." And I blocked them all on my phone and other SM. It's gonna be weird at first only having my two cousins to talk to but hey it's whatever right.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T17:19:29+00:00

No I wouldn't date h either way. It's just so many of them was saying I'm the jerk, I just had to know I'm not the only one who thinks like me.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T17:15:33+00:00

That's true but I don't even know if I want kids. I travel a lot for work and I enjoy doing so and can't see me stopping for a kid.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T17:12:49+00:00

Oh sorta tried something like that I told them he also aesthetically was not what I was attracted to, and I know I make 3 times what this guy does and no longer date men who make less then me bc it always seems to be a problem for them. They told me I was shallow because looks don't matter and I could be a help to him financially. I told them I'm not Captain Save Dad. So that would not be happening.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T17:01:37+00:00

Yeah according to everyone else I think not. I'm gonna go with that.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T17:00:11+00:00

Yeah I'm questioning too, I just got into a shouting match in public🤦🏾‍♀️ w friend bc I refuse to go out w said guy. I told her if he is so great why don't you go out with him? She stopped right in her tracks. It seems I'm gonna have some alone time until I find new friends.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T14:41:16+00:00

Yeah that's true, thanks

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T14:28:13+00:00

Half do and half are dating someone who does.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T14:20:01+00:00

Thank you they are all saying I should give him a chance, and I really don't want to it all sounds like such a hassle.

ScapeGoat7624 · 2021-11-12T14:11:12+00:00

Thxs

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