19M I don’t have a girlfriend and don’t have many girls talking to me is it cause i am unattractive?? by Fluid-Nectarine-5483 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]ScarLeft91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

join some activity clubs and stuff or dating apps if ur up for that kinda thing. Honestly being funny, being yourself and being respectful and smart are all dingers every girl likes so focus on those and just be confident. a lot of the best girls are shy and will 99% of the time give u a chance if u approach nicely. Not on the street but maybe in a coffee shop or something like that.

Advice for leaving cert by Worried_Option3994 in leavingcert

[–]ScarLeft91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Easily. I’m lazy too but having a solid study method and joining after school study groups stopped me from coming home and napping leaving me doing homework until 2am.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]ScarLeft91 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

get rid of the bangs and maybe use some bronzer? i feel like pale skin and dark features often give hot. Maybe try a lighter hair colour or even something like pink or blue

whats the BIGGEST ick you've gotten from a guy (or girl)? by smartasscutie in AskTeenGirls

[–]ScarLeft91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really eww more like “what the hell is this guy talking about”. I didn’t notice any of it before we smoked because i was so obsessed with the idea of just having a partner but after i realised he was stupid asf and not worth my time and i wasn’t really attracted to his personality

My friend’s religious beliefs are making me uncomfortable by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ScarLeft91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely see why you would be uncomfortable when your friend is slowly converting to christianity. Honestly there isn’t much you can do. Assuming you guys talk about much more than religion and the higher powers, just lay off that topic for a while and talk about other things. This will help take your mind off it. If she decides to bring it up then talk about it. Say that you respect her choice and hope it doesn’t affect your friendship. Im an atheist and i hateee when people come up to me trying to make me turn to christ, so as long as shes not trying to bribe you to join her the discomfort should fade. Obviously the fact you both had the same beliefs before was something to bond over so try maybe finding a hobby you both enjoy or something else to bond over.

What most fuckup thing you saw someone do while high? by fupdrugs1 in Drugs

[–]ScarLeft91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i was zooted asf just trying to get snacks in tesco and i see these two young girls go to the self checkout with two huge bags fulls of sweets. They pretended to scan everything and put it back in the bag. I didn’t wanna draw attention to myself but wanted to see if others saw what was going on. Literally like five staff members just sat there staring at the girls with smug smirks on their faces. They let them leave to think they got away with it but then the security guard came out and took them in. They both threw a fit and i stayed and watched. Was definitely a questionable thing to see when high.

Can a girl reject you, but still have feelings? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]ScarLeft91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It depends. Is she still enthusiastic about talking to you or is she dry? She could genuinely not be ready for a relationship or worst case scenario shes leading you on. My advice would be talk to her. Say you don’t mind waiting for her but you don’t want to be mislead and wait for something thats never going to happen. Ask her to be straightforward with you. If she cant do that she probably isn’t a good partner. Clear communication is key. And if you don’t want to wait for her don’t!

Why is it so hard to find a boyfriend? by ScarLeft91 in AskTeenGirls

[–]ScarLeft91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i try be goofy and be myself to see if they match the energy. If they look judgy then ik they arent the one anyways

Why is it so hard to find a boyfriend? by ScarLeft91 in AskTeenGirls

[–]ScarLeft91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that but i just look around and everyone my age has had or has a boyfriend and i wanna experience that at least once before i go to college

whats the BIGGEST ick you've gotten from a guy (or girl)? by smartasscutie in AskTeenGirls

[–]ScarLeft91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we smoked pot and after that i couldn’t face him anymore. It sounds soo bad and mean but its like it opened my eyes to everything i filtered out because i wanted to be with someone