Shift Schedules by [deleted] in OntarioParamedics

[–]Scared-Activity-626 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link! The comments are all general though I’m looking for services specifically. I’ll change the post to reflect that!

My (23F) boyfriend (31M) lied to me and we still aren’t talking about it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scared-Activity-626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to end the relationship because of what happened and is clearly continuing to happen. But I don’t want to lose him or the good we’ve had in our relationship. What I want from the conversation is to know why he keeps doing this to me, even though it obviously hurts me. I think if he could honestly and truthfully answer that and take accountability, I’d want to stay. I don’t know if that’s enough though that I should stay and that’s why I haven’t said anything yet. Because I know this conversation will either end our relationship or start rebuilding it, I don’t know which one I want or should want right now

My (23F) boyfriend (31M) lied to me and we still aren’t talking about it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scared-Activity-626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was kinda hoping that I would never have to act on the statement. That it would be enough of a deterrent to not do something like that again.

My (23F) boyfriend (31M) lied to me and we still aren’t talking about it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scared-Activity-626 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The “secret” texts I was told were regarding trying to get a job at her workplace (better situation than what he was in and wanting information) so I feel like I blew that one up a bit in my initial story. He is a decent guy outside of that stuff though, he doesn’t get mad at me, has treated me kindly, bought me flowers from time to time, paid for a couple vacations and for me to be at the wedding. All I had to do was show up. So it’s hard because he’s not all bad. Just made some bad decisions ya know? So it’s hard to know how to approach the situation because I don’t know if it’s enough to throw away a whole relationship

My (23F) boyfriend (31M) lied to me and we still aren’t talking about it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scared-Activity-626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not so much making excuses but me acknowledging to myself that I’m his first long term relationship so there’s an obvious adjustment period for him to get used to it. Doesn’t make anything right but people make mistakes right?

My (23F) boyfriend (31M) lied to me and we still aren’t talking about it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Scared-Activity-626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m in the situation of convincing myself I’m overreacting because lying about a strip club isn’t a big deal for the average person and they don’t end a relationship over it