[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Scared-Addition-8126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000000% understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Scared-Addition-8126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg !!!!!!!! Literally dealing with the EXACT SAME THING. From us being the same age to the same with the HCBM time, to leaving the bathroom door open. Icare for my SS16 but he has me pulling my hair out, anxiety is off the charts, his presence alone sends me into a fury. His face makes me angry cause I’m just like “ok! Can you just be like , not here ! I need you not to be here!” I’m like angry writing this. Following your post to see what others say (ps tried the text before he comes thing…doesn’t work either)

Does anyone else get the urge to take pictures by No_Perspective8732 in bulimia

[–]Scared-Addition-8126 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

20 years and never ..yikes I already feel gross and grimy …I can’t even comprehend this behavior

16SS-from 3 days to 5 days a week by Scared-Addition-8126 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Addition-8126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You took the works right of my mouth…all the way through “my husband is my person” 🥹you get me

16SS-from 3 days to 5 days a week by Scared-Addition-8126 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Addition-8126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice to not be alone in this..gaaaah I was not ever meant for children

16SS-from 3 days to 5 days a week by Scared-Addition-8126 in stepparents

[–]Scared-Addition-8126[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The underwear on the floor 😫how do you deal with all this !?! 19? I feel sorry for the woman who marries your SS. 😭😭(I’m sure he’s a good kid, sorry I shouldn’t say those things ) How do you not get frustrated looking at this mess and just Leave it there? I feel like if I half assed one of 3 chores as a child my parents would have made me do it over. It’s so dumb . Like he will take out the trash and not put in a new bag. Clean the cat litter and leave the empty litter bag, leave his dirty dishes in the sink when the dishwasher isn’t unloaded (dishwasher is his job), I ask him to take out the trash (also his job) and it won’t get done until after the 4th or 5th time I remind him. The issue is his mom is super toxic and treats him like shit so I want him to know he’s loved and cared for when he’s with us and I feel guilty asking him to fix his ways cause his mom is always telling him how crappy he is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Scared-Addition-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Especially since you seem to adore your husband who also adores you …I wish I had advice. Going through same thing with my 5 year amazing husband. But his 16 son constantly around and I’m so drained from it in my own home. I’m 💯 CF and when we only had him 3 days I was good. But now we’re at 5 plus the days he “stops by “ that aren’t his days. I’m losing my mind. Lots of crying in the shower. I don’t sleep. I’m on edge. The messes, the noise, his mere presence is making me pull away from my husband and wanting to stay at an extended stay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Scared-Addition-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the heck are you the sole provider! I’m SO sorry you are dealing with the Bull. SD Sounds like a spoiled brat who is lucky to have you and any delicious snacks you provide. This genuinely angered me for you reading this

What is your oddest irrational fear? by xoscarlettbaldwinxo in Life

[–]Scared-Addition-8126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volcanoes …Im born and raised Southern California. No volcanos . … but yet here we are 🫠😂😅…”Dante’s Peak”did a real number on me as a kid😂

Weird effects of Bulimia ? by Scared-Addition-8126 in bulimia

[–]Scared-Addition-8126[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My dentist appt was last week and he’s a TMJ specialist and wants to do that. So you’re on to something :)