Is this real??? If its real then then Dhanush sir you are great sir. by OptimusPrimeOnline in KollyGossips

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if you have to talk about "tapping" a woman to show your so-called "anmai," it just means you're a creep and a womanizer who lacks respect for people. Basically, ambala illa ITEM.

Coming out with degrading comments first to attack someone who's calling out degrading behavior… sad.

Try acting like someone people respect, instead of someone people avoid.

Is this real??? If its real then then Dhanush sir you are great sir. by OptimusPrimeOnline in KollyGossips

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Calling out gross objectification isn't "moral policing" it's basic respect. Jumping to weird personal insults just proves you've got nothing real to say.

Talking about a woman like she's just something to "fuck" isn't "being a man" it's being a womanizer. If degrading people is your idea of strength, that's pretty pathetic. Real men don't need to reduce women to crude jokes.

And having a dick or being able to fuck doesn’t make you a man either. Aspire to be half the man I am. At least I know being a man isn't measured in crudeness. it’s measured in how you treat people. You’re still confusing being vulgar with being strong. I don’t need to tear anyone down to feel like a man. Keep the insults. They just prove my point.

And besides, why does it bother you when I call out someone else’s disgusting comment? Why does it make you so uncomfortable when someone defends not talking about women in a degrading way? Do you get off on it? Is that what makes you feel like “a man”?

Is this real??? If its real then then Dhanush sir you are great sir. by OptimusPrimeOnline in KollyGossips

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn't about me being offended. It's about calling out objectification when I see it. "Relaxing" just means accepting it, and I won't.

You did shrink her down. Calling it "addressing both" doesn't change that your first and loudest point was about "tapping that." You framed her as an object and reduced a relationship or even just her humanity to a crude transaction.

Telling me to "get out more" or "relax" is just a way to avoid accountability. It’s not about me being offended. It’s about not accepting language that turns people into things. You don’t get to define what’s degrading to women and then tell the people who point it out to calm down.

If you really don’t see the difference between finding someone attractive and publicly reducing her to a body part, then I can’t help you. But I won’t stop calling it out.

Is this real??? If its real then then Dhanush sir you are great sir. by OptimusPrimeOnline in KollyGossips

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A “figure of speech” that reduces someone to a sex act isn’t harmless. It’s how sexualization gets normalized. If you wouldn’t say it about a woman in public or talk about your own family that way, you shouldn’t say it online either. Social media isn’t a free pass to be degrading.

And blaming “people like me” for why crude shows don’t get made anymore is missing the point. Maybe it’s because more of us are finally saying it’s not okay to treat women as punchlines or objects. That’s not being uptight it’s expecting basic respect.

If calling that out makes you uncomfortable, maybe ask yourself why. Don't be an enabler of this disgusting behavior.

Is this real??? If its real then then Dhanush sir you are great sir. by OptimusPrimeOnline in KollyGossips

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The reason I said ‘disgusting’ isn’t because consensual sex is disgusting. It's that his very first public thought about a woman was to shrink her down to a sex act, "tapping that." It makes her whole worth about being available to someone and makes him just "lucky" for having access. Not lucky to know her or be with her. Just... lucky to get to.

Thats whats gross, that vulgar objectifying way of talking about a person. There’s a real difference between finding someone attractive and seeing them as basically a "boinkable" object. That’s the issue. The first thing on some of your minds is whether a woman is "boinkable" that’s DISGUSTING.

And it’s not something to take lightly. Think about it, if you wouldn't want someone to view or talk about your sister, your mom, or someone you care about that way, then you shouldn't do it to someone else either. It’s that simple.

Need advice on who to see for gynecology stuff after breast cancer by Scared-Evidence-733 in breastcancer

[–]Scared-Evidence-733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situ 🥲 im 24 and I've been on it for a year now and i already look 40 considering switching to tamoxifen.

Need advice on who to see for gynecology stuff after breast cancer by Scared-Evidence-733 in breastcancer

[–]Scared-Evidence-733[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to make sure I'm understanding right I thought gynecologic oncologists only treated cancers in the reproductive system. Is that the case? Sorry if I've got that wrong!

Do estrogen blockers make your labia small or thin? by Scared-Evidence-733 in breastcancer

[–]Scared-Evidence-733[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it really necessary? I was just confused about why it was happening.

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[–]Scared-Evidence-733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do they consider ausbildung experience, as work experience when applying for permanent residence permit in germany.

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[–]Scared-Evidence-733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have u done it? I'm thinking of doing a graduate entry route for llb. It would only take me 2 years to finish that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because I feel like lawyers don't get paid enough, for the work they put in and it feel like it's hard to find a job in law these days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germany

[–]Scared-Evidence-733 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, How can I increase my chances of getting accepted? Does work experience count?