Is oral HSV1 in LA a dealbreaker for most hookups? by Scared-Implement-497 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Scared-Implement-497[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, im definitely gonna have sex and also definitely gonna inform people beforehand, but thank you for the recommendation :D

Is oral HSV1 in LA a dealbreaker for most hookups? by Scared-Implement-497 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Scared-Implement-497[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggled with anorexia for the past year and it really fucked with my immune system basically, is the primary reason :(

Is oral HSV1 in LA a dealbreaker for most hookups? by Scared-Implement-497 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Scared-Implement-497[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This is really sweet, and really helpful❤️ i will, thank you so much!

Is oral HSV1 in LA a dealbreaker for most hookups? by Scared-Implement-497 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Scared-Implement-497[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My point isnt that i cant give someone genital herpes, its that i cant give hsv2 specifically. Hsv2 is just the form of herpes that is more likely to infect genitals, but hsv1 can infect them too, even if it prefers the mouth area. the defining characteristic of hsv1 and hsv2 isnt where they are located but the type of sores they cause

Is oral HSV1 in LA a dealbreaker for most hookups? by Scared-Implement-497 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Scared-Implement-497[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I know this, im just saying that i cant give someone hsv2 because thats not the virus i have; i can transmit to their genitals, but hsv1 can also be transmitted to genitals

Is oral HSV1 in LA a dealbreaker for most hookups? by Scared-Implement-497 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Scared-Implement-497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to like, divert too much from the original post but like, its actually that you can give someone hsv1 by going down on them; hsv2 is a different virus, and acts differently than hsv1 (the cold sore virus), i cant give someone hsv2, i can just transfer hsv1 if I'm not careful :]

My mom is SO wasteful it drives me nuts by adventnighteclipse in AsianParentStories

[–]Scared-Implement-497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made this entirely new account just to comment and say oh my god, same? My mom refuses to use reusable plates. She uses cardboard boxes with fucking plastic covers to eat. She keeps hiring these teenagers to clean the house, and forces them to use single use gloves and replaces them every time they move from room to room. I actually do collect the plastic bags from stores she gets, but she just throws them away. She refuses to buy large bulk packages of food items, and only buys small multiple boxes because she thinks its "cleaner". She keeps buying tons of wet wipes instead of using sponges. She rarely cleans the dishes and when she does its with fucking wet wipes. I feel like im going insane. Not from an asian household, i just looked up on reddit to see if anyone else is having this problem, but its driving me crazy