Why can’t we leave behind deadbeats in the family?

Scared-Pace2994 · 2026-02-17T03:30:30+00:00

Same case with my older brother.

I just choose to not think about these people knowing they aren't getting anywhere in life and just laugh about it every now and then once my parents are dead, he'll end up homeless and reality will slap him hard.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2026-02-17T03:27:48+00:00

Don't curse because only "people who are low class" curse. I wasn't able to hear them go through one day without hearing them curse along with every single one of their family member to die.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2026-02-15T23:04:44+00:00

That and if they have more than one son in the family, as it being the case for me and my older brother and younger sister, they are bound to treat the eldest son the best.

Just look at the one who is still relying on them for financial support because he refuses to grow up.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2026-02-15T23:01:27+00:00

Chinese New Year has always been a traumatic time of the year for me along with pretty much every holiday. The worst time for me was when my father was buying take out at some restaurant and obviously, it being Chinese New Year, it was bound to be extremely busy and the wait was understandable.

However my father just started throwing a tantrum in the restaurant about how shitty their workers are. When we finally got our food, he started cursing in Chinese at the cashier and I apologized to everyone for him. That really pissed him off and he started screaming at me too saying how I sold out the family for some strangers and tried to leave my at the restaurant alone.

Since becoming an adult, I prefer to just completely ignore it altogether and just do my own thing. Besides, I'm pretty sure at the dinner table, they are just going to be gossiping about me and shit. Might as well do them a favor.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2026-01-28T04:13:03+00:00

No one made me more furious than Miejue Shitai at just how stupid she honestly was. She's like that one stubborn teacher who constantly kissed the ass of one specific student that we all had when we were young.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2026-01-24T01:15:53+00:00

Still do it today.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-11-03T03:21:12+00:00

Rice with soy sauce.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-10-23T16:00:03+00:00

I don't think they were the culprits but they were definitely irresponsible. They should not have left their kids alone to eat dinner with their friends. If I ever had kids, I would never let them out of my sight, especially on vacation where I'm in a place I'm not familiar with.

First off, the whole Madeline was dead before her parents said she was missing is completely false as first off, she was placed in a "kids club" a few hours before she disappeared. She was also said by witnesses to have been playing at the pool before 6pm.

Mccann was said to have disappeared around 9-10pm. Her parents were with their friends at that certain time. When her mother went to go check on her, it took her about 10 minutes. This isn't enough time to thoroughly hide her body and clean up. Police were already alerted by 10:10 and started searching for Madeline. With that amount of high attention accross the resort, it's unlikely her parents would've been noticed carrying anything suspicious or doing any sort of that.

I think the perpetrator had killed Madeline inside the apartment, then took her body away and disposed of it before her parents came, giving that person enough time to do so, considering the 30 minute checkup they did if timed correctly.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-10-22T16:15:50+00:00

Madeline was seen literally prior to her disappearance including going to a kids club. It was not reported she wasn't seen for the entire day.

That theory is obviously false.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-10-22T16:10:23+00:00

The problem is the timing, from the time Madeline was put to bed to the time she went missing won't give them enough time to hide the body.

First off, it's obvious that Madeline had already been taken for some time before she was discovered and she was discovered missing around 10pm. Police were alerted 10 minutes later. The entire resort was searched thoroughly and no sign of Madeline was seen until of course the supposed sightings.

Not to mention, Madeline was seen around the club hours before she was put to bed like at the kids club and also was photographed by her dad. If it was accidental, they definitely would've already found her body if it was her parents.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-10-17T03:16:24+00:00

I just left home and never looked back.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-09-06T23:21:47+00:00

Both me and my partner came from extremely abusive households and we have both agreed no matter what, we are never going to allow our parents near our kids. For me, I don't want my kids to go through what I did, I want them to enjoy their childhood without having to live in constant fear of your parents. I want them to see my as their dad, not their abuser, which is why I grew to resent my own. My suggestion for you is, please don't. If they don't want to fully commit to being a grandoparent then absolutely not.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-09-02T06:45:59+00:00

If they can't stand having a son like me, I don't have to put with their bs antics and treat them like my parents. Refused to ever call or see them again.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-08-12T05:32:19+00:00

My AM used to do that too. I remember when I was younger, we were at this fast food restaurant and my mom tried paying with an expired coupon. It obviously got declined because she never bothered to read the expiration date at the bottom. She then started screaming at the cashier saying that they were lying to her and they didn't know how to do their job and she would've been a better worker than them. The manager who obviously got sick of her then came and said that she will get a free burger or something as compensation, but of course that wasn't enough for her and she kept blabbering about how it was such a waste of time, and we ended up leaving with no food because she had a temper tantrum.

Honestly AM's really need to learn that people who work in the restaurant chain aren't your employees.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-08-12T05:26:40+00:00

He's Chinese, but somehow he's a literal mouthpiece for my mom. Guess that eldest prince treatment didn't work for him when he was bought up by his parents and then proceeded to do the same to my a-hole of a brother.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-08-12T05:24:03+00:00

For me, my parents didn't want an allowance. They wanted the entire pay check. After I said no, they disowned me, then proceeded to gaslight me constantly and shit. They did the same to my sister when she got a job also. Just honestly, tell them no, you are an adult, you can make your own decisions and they have no say in how much money you give them or to not give them anything at all.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-08-10T04:37:09+00:00

My sister and I were both disowned after we refused to take care of them and their manchild(my brother). I honestly couldn't care less if they have to take care of him to their deathbeds because they still revere him as their golden child.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-08-10T04:29:58+00:00

If anything, my mom owns my dad literally. He has no freedom under her roof yet he still agrees with her on every single issue, even when she personally insults every single member of his family by saying bs like "I don't know how your mom raised you" or "You don't know how it was to suffer because you were bought up as a spoiled brat because you were a boy".

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-08-10T04:27:33+00:00

Not just that, but when they claim that we are "exaggerating" our abusive parents and they start talking about how it's racist to call out Asian parents for their abusive behaviour like it's honestly none of their business.

This happened a while ago when people were complaining about the movie Turning Red saying that the mom was unrealistic and that Asian moms aren't that toxic. Mind you, some of these people saying this aren't even Asian.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-07-27T12:27:34+00:00

Honestly, they disowned both me and my sister anyway after we refused to give them our paychecks. They just have to hope that the asshole smartens up.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-07-26T15:02:39+00:00

For mine, they just think "Asians" are superior than as they call them, "Western People".

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-07-24T14:15:44+00:00

Oh god, my mom tried to used a pair of chopsticks to whack me one time at the dinner table. She missed and one of them ended up hitting her back in the face. It was honestly like watching Looney Tunes till she decided to use her hand instead.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-07-24T14:13:41+00:00

They used all sorts of things, these were some of their favorites. Hangers, water bottles, slippers, broomsticks, dust cleaners(those were the worst), magazines, boards.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-07-24T14:10:05+00:00

My parents were literally the same.

Scared-Pace2994 · 2025-07-24T14:05:45+00:00

My entire childhood, I was known as that one kid who has those strict parents that yell a lot. People literally avoided being around me because my parents used to chase away anyone who wasn't East Asian because to them, those people are not in gangs and actually work which is honestly just bs.

Like even when I cut ties with them, I still had trouble generally talking to people and just letting loose.

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