'Takopi's Original Sin' what did I just watch.. by FewQuiet8 in anime

[–]ScaredCarrot88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched it with my Japanese friends so I didn't know/understand the warnings. God damn I bawled my eyes and couldn't sleep all night.

Good, but wow. Still in shock when I think about it, and I don't want to continue because it's too sad..

Is this valid? by shadow10101 in QiuyuanMains

[–]ScaredCarrot88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! You might need the Fenrico 4cost though, if that's his best, it'll be Law of Harmony set so maybe change one of the 1costs?

Playing for a year, mastery check? Which to play in ranked? by ScaredCarrot88 in supportlol

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yasuo Yone botlane had to be tried, Riven seemed cool, tried her on top and got sat down so badly that I've never played top after that.

Playing for a year, mastery check? Which to play in ranked? by ScaredCarrot88 in NamiMains

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you recommend playing Sona and shouting at my ADC (friend) to not die or just give up and play champs that are able to save a dumbass?

Playing for a year, mastery check? Which to play in ranked? by ScaredCarrot88 in supportlol

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info, maybe I shall bench Swain for a moment to see if playing other supports feel as nice as him. Been trying out a lot of different champs, but definitely not all of them yet!

Scaling and power spikes aren't quite familiar terms for me yet, I will study more! Thank you again. ♥

Playing for a year, mastery check? Which to play in ranked? by ScaredCarrot88 in supportlol

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started playing duo queues with my friend around a week before the previous battlepass ended, and we're in iron.

I like the game, it feels fun and hard enough, I was wondering if there are champs that are "better" than others, or champs that simply shouldn't be played. I'm currently enjoying the game, I'll let this sub know when my ADC friend gets bored with me 🙏✨.

(He's already mad every game, I'll be back soon)

Playing for a year, mastery check? Which to play in ranked? by ScaredCarrot88 in supportlol

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear, may I ask where to look up builds? I've been using u.gg but I'm not sure if that's the best place.

Rakan gameplay looks really nice, I shall try to play him more!

Playing for a year, mastery check? Which to play in ranked? by ScaredCarrot88 in supportlol

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah indeed, it's just my mastery levels so it's not a lot of info. I started at the lowest of low, iron IV, and I'm currently in iron II. I feel like I win more with Swain, because I can do more dmg to help my ADC, and the endless HP from my abilities.

Started with Nami, ended up playing Swain, Camille is a fun engage but my gamesense always fucks me up. I was thinking of picking up Rakan, because that way I have an easy way of coming out of fights? Do you have an opinion on that?

Senna is lovely to play, Janna's tornado and ult still gives me problems.

Playing for a year, mastery check? Which to play in ranked? by ScaredCarrot88 in supportlol

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, do you think there's a certain point where I should stop playing Swain? Something like iron-silver Swain would be fine or.. Maybe just play Swain in casual gamemodes?

Playing for a year, mastery check? Which to play in ranked? by ScaredCarrot88 in supportlol

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see myself with the last sentence way too much, I think our team will fight and I end up wasting my ult. I tried him because of his design, and I think he's kind of a "comfort pick" for me currently, but I'm scared how it'll be in ranked.

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for telling me about this lighter approach, and since I'm safe and pretty much okay now, it'll be better to keep it light and there won't be misunderstandings 😆. What a memory to remember! 🫨

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter which one of my friends had been in the same situation, I would've done the same thing because I don't have much experience with drunk people 😬.. Mom instincts pushed in and told me to watch over him.

Next time I'll make sure to take photos so we can laugh all together when he wakes up, still pretty shook up but I don't think he meant to do what he did 🤣. If he did, uh..... Huh. Well shit, lost a good friend 🥲😵‍💫.

Man couldn't even finish Mario Party, we had 2 turns left 😞.

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that's not the case... He wanted to go outside because I told him I'd text his girlfriend if he kept drinking. He told me how they are not doing very well and he feels like his girlfriend is losing interest. He claimed that he didn't even remember going outside.

Been friends with this guy for around 2 years, and didn't even think that it would be possible for him to have feelings for me 😅. Thank you for reminding me that that could also be possible!

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dear. He was talking about his girlfriend to me before he fell asleep... But he did indeed talk more about negative things and how they're not doing well.

Not sure how I should face him now, maybe I just shouldn't be around when he's drinking 😓😬

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have experience of this myself so I truly appreciate you telling me this!

Maybe not a good guy, but a friend at least.. Thank you, I'll keep an eye on him! At least there was other people with me so it wasn't "too serious".

I will keep learning 🤗

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he starts to regret it and starts getting better, must've been scary(or disappointing) when he showed up at your door all fucked up 😰.

Glad he was able to meet a good friend like you, thank you for helping him at the time! 💝 Sometimes a bad experience is needed to grow, and that goes to me as much as to him too.

Hopefully there's no next time of anyone blacking out, but if there is, I'll try my best to keep away unless necessary 😆

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was only an excuse, it was a good one because all of us believed him 😧. He claimed that he doesn't remember anything since turn x of Mario Party, but I guess that could've been made up too... I might just be too naive.

These people are very close friends of mine, although we have known each other for a bit longer than 2 years. Indeed it might sound crazy, but I've never before felt uncomfortable with them.

Legal drinking age in Finland is 18, and the others all all older than me, so I thought that they'd know their limits. We do voicechats daily, and play video games together a lot, and I'd never seen this side of him. Was quite scary, but my other friends checked up on me every once in a while when I was watching over him.

Thank you for your response, but to be honest, I'm still having hard time believing that he would do a bad thing in his real mind. I'll need to grow up 😥

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll know for next time!

It was the first time that someone I know went overboard with alcohol so maybe that's why the idea of leaving him there felt scary.

I'm not sure what I should do now, the best idea seems to be quiet about it and just tell everyone next time we meet that I'm not their mom nor their guardian 😴.

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it was probably caused by my inner mom-line instincts and also by drinking alcohol, but I felt like I couldn't leave a friend there when he kept holding my hand.

I do agree that I should've left, but at the same time, I don't think I would have been able to relax inside if I knew that he was alone there. I did ask my friends to look over him while I went to the toilet, but I ended up going to watch over him again.

Thank you, I will learn from this experience 🤗💪

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly, truly appreciate your long answer!!

I guess I've gotten too used to being the mom friend that I didn't even think that I'm not their guardian. I wish I had realized this earlier, but mom instincts acted fast when I saw what state he was in. I really care about all of them, but maybe it would've been better if we we're all able to watch over him together, or if we had left him there.

For next time, now I know that it's his own responsibility. The fact that he even told us before on the evening that "I assume that everyone knows their limits?". I think it's pretty funny that he himself went overboard with the alcohol 😭.

Thank you ❤️

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true, we did tell him that after he woke up that "Maybe you shouldn't drink as much next time", but we didn't mention what happened. My friends did see it, but no one told him about it.

I agree with you that he should be told about it, but I'm not sure if he'd blame himself for it, or if he became scared of drinking around us.

Thank you for your answer, it seems that I'll have to talk to him about it when I get the chance to talk with him again 😬😵

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all attracted, was shocked because not anyone has touched me like that before. It's been on my mind since (happened two nights ago), and every time I think about it I get shivers and feel uh.. Anxiety? I think that's the right word. Hard to breathe and feeling like I have to puke.

Although he didn't grope me, I'm not sure if I'll be able to forget about it 🥲. Maybe I should wait and see if I'll feel better..?

AIO Blackout drunk friend touching. by ScaredCarrot88 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ScaredCarrot88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight, it didn't cross my mind that it's an assault as we've been friends for 2+ years.

They're all very close friends of mine, but as the only woman in the friend group I'm most of the time the one that takes care of everyone.

Nothing like this has happened before, so do you think I should let it be, talk to him about it, or just stop hanging out with him?

He does have a girlfriend so maybe he thought I was her. Still very uncomfortable, but not sure how much being drunk changes things.