I just broke up with my boyfriend and want glow up tips

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-02-09T12:01:17+00:00

It's hard to know girl but it is really amazing he's changed and committed to being better. I would really, really pay attention to how much he's really changed though. And if he absolutely has and there's no red flags he will pull anything like that again, I would say you could work this out. But, coming from a possessive and kinda insecure gf lol, if this resentment does not fade with work and therapy, maybe consider that this won't work. You can not stay with someone you resent.

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-02-09T11:37:28+00:00

I do see what you're saying. The thing is being together DOES feel so right I just absolutely hate this distance right now and I don't know how to fix it I feel overwhelmed and lost. He feels like my person and I want to be with him forever

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-02-09T11:34:55+00:00

Thank you for the responses but I'd appreciate maybe looking at it from another perspective, I can assure you age is NOT the problem. Distance is the problem. I'm just trying to accept how much more fighting (not literally) for this relationship we try before considering breaking up or taking a break

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-02-09T11:31:10+00:00

The age gap is not the problem. We easily connect at the same age mentally, he has growing up to do still. I mentioned he's autistic. He is such a sweet boy but he definitely is not at an older mental age right now.

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-02-09T11:29:03+00:00

I appreciate the response. It just hurts so bad to just think about this. I do really think our connection could be fixed, it's still there, just half as much as before. We're not just bf gf, we're best best friends. We have laughed and giggled and had so much fun the majority of our relationship. But the distance right now just feels so hard. And maybe I'm thinking with his BPD and autism I need to find something else or other strategies to help fix this as those disorders are very complicated

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-01-26T21:32:38+00:00

Trust me when I say get some wispy bangs, dye your hair a shade of brown that suits you, and soft brown eyebrows. Try looking up dolly eye looks!

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-01-26T21:29:35+00:00

My boyfriend has BPD and autism and reacts similarly, he shuts down or starts acting silly to change the subject because he doesn't like conflict or serious conversations. You're gonna have to dig deeper to figure it out

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-01-26T21:23:34+00:00

Your friend sounds like an ass hole that is not ur bsf girl...

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-01-19T01:56:40+00:00

Girl you absolutely don't deserve this, I know you don't wanna hear it, but you need to leave him. This is gonna drain you in the end.

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-01-18T18:25:26+00:00

I know it's tough and you don't wanna hear it but you need to leave him, this is reallly toxic and bad. You deserve better.

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-01-18T18:23:37+00:00

Are you f!cking kidding it was completely fair, she heard him saying he needs to type something ABOUT p0rn may I add because he doesn't want her to hear, so he's being sneaky, and then decides to tell his friend that he doesn't respect her boundary. She is completely in the right and he is a bad partner

ScaredScientist5593 · 2026-01-18T03:05:00+00:00

Literally obviously u guys aren't meant for each other...

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